Let’s be real. We’ve all had an interesting last 3 years. We’ve had a worldwide pandemic, closures, and even the wedding planning world was paused. As the clock struck midnight, I knew we were all thinking “This is going to be OUR year.” As 2023 starts, the wedding season is right around the corner. And as wedding planners, we know what that means – wedding planning is in full force and it’s coming in hot. As our couples begin the wedding planning process of creating a timeless affair, they are searching for what's modern, fresh, and new. So, we’ve done our research and compiled some of our predictions for the 2023 wedding season. What will be a flop and must this season?

01 - A traditional affair?

At the top of the list, we are predicting that more and more couples will move away from the traditional, classic wedding. If there is anything the last two years have taught us and of course the living in a worldwide pandemic, traditional weddings are not as popular. Due to outside circumstances, couples had to think outside the wedding box and find their own path. One of the ways couples are breaking tradition is by personalizing their big days and creating weddings that are unique to them. Personalization can create weddings unique and specific to you and your partner. Creating weddings that are unique and personable is the easiest way to move away from the traditional “I dos”. 

02- Let’s travel baby!

Next, our list is a less traditional wedding version, it’s all about hosting destination weddings. Now that travel is becoming safer and more popular, more couples are opting to say “I do” abroad. Having an international affair allows more intimate time with family and friends and who doesn’t love to travel. Additionally, an international affair gives couples and families an opportunity to escape and truly enjoy their big day. But, yes, having a wedding abroad sounds spendy, but often venues and hotels can provide a destination package. Our research shows that some European countries will become popular, such as Greece, Italy, France, and Spain. So, be adventurous and take a look at some of the upcoming destinations for your big day. 

03- The smaller, the better – right?

Having a destination wedding also means that most likely your affair will be in an intimate setting. Due to the pandemic and wedding closures, many couples had to have weddings with just a few family and friends. What we found was many individuals agreed that having intimate weddings allowed couples to enjoy their day with the people they love most. Even though the pandemic has hit the back burner, we predict that intimate gatherings will stick around. One perk of having an intimate wedding advocates spending the day with your closest family and friends. And, it also supports a couple who may be on a smaller budget. 

04- Sign us up for a wedding weekend!

Whether you host a local affair or an international one, there is a high chance that some of your family and friends must travel to attend. One of the trends we’ve seen become more popular over time is having weddings that expand on more than just a day. Venues and/or retreats are offering wedding weekend packages, some including lodging and meals. This allows your guests to not only enjoy your wedding, but create a once in a kind experience. Retreats can hold various classes and events such as yoga, touring, and even cooking classes. It also eliminates the need to provide transportation for your guests to and from the wedding. Guests are able to eat, dance, drink and enjoy themselves. 

05 - Did you say custom?

We predict that fashion will be front and center this upcoming year. More brides are flocking to designers for custom wedding dress designs. Designers offer the chance to have a one of a kind dress, as well as personalized touches. Tik Tok has also introduced various upcoming designers and ways to sew your own wedding dress. We’ve noticed an increase in individuals trying to do it themselves, or finding someone to help with their attire customizations. Customizing your attire, as well as your wedding parties attire can add a creative and memorable touch. 

06 - But, have you seen on Tik Tok…?

Yes, we’re going to mention Tik Tok again. Tik Tok has become an international sensation. During the pandemic Tik Tok brought viewers a chance to explore the outside world and interact with people, even while being on lock down. Today, Tik Tok offers various tips, tricks, and even DIY projects. We are noticing that more people are finding their inspiration for everyday life through this app. Which means couples will most likely find a lot of their inspiration for their big day from not only couples on the app, but wedding planners and coordinators, too! Whether you’re looking for the hottest dance trends, fashion, or reception ideas - Tik Tok seems to be an inspiration for the masses. 

07 - A Formal Affair!

We love a good black tie. And let's be honest, people love a good reason to dress up in their finest attire. We think that this upcoming year will bring us formal affairs, including black tie. Couples love the idea of dressing up and having their guests join in on the fun. Guests can enjoy formal gowns, or cocktail dresses, and debonair suits. So, don’t be surprised if your latest invite says formal attire, and hey – even look towards Tik Tok to find some inspiration! 

We are thrilled to begin the new year with a fresh attitude. We are looking forward to seeing our own couples tie the knot, but also look forward to seeing what the wedding world has to offer in 2023. Whether you want to have a destination wedding, local intimate affair, customized wedding party attire, or even search Tik Tok for inspiration we are here to watch and support your wedding dreams. So happy planning and we can’t wait to see what this year brings. 

Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 17 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.