Summer Wedding Tips and Tricks

Seattle wedding planner working on a summer mood board

The summer months are quickly approaching. We know that the season of summer is a popular time for couples to tie the knot. Many couples believe that summer is the ideal season to hold their wedding, due to the weather, lush scenery, and it allows couples to take advantage of their venue. As wedding planners, summer is our busiest season, we often are double booked through the weekend and are planning weddings throughout the summer. We’ve learned a few things from our experiences with the season – so let’s dive into navigating a summer wedding. 

Often when people think of a summer wedding, they automatically think of an outdoor wedding. Whether you chose to host your ceremony, reception, or both outside there are a few important points for you to think about. Weather can be hit or miss. Be sure to have a backup plan for your venue if it is outdoor. You most likely picked your date to celebrate in the sunshine, but let’s face it - weather happens. Talk to your venue coordinator and or wedding planner to discuss a backup plan. The last thing you want is to have your guests stuck in the rain.

On the opposite side of the spectrum, create a plan for the rising temperatures. Summer months can bring hot weather. Plan and execute ways to keep your guests cool. We’ve seen couples use mini fans, misters, personal fans, or even offer beverages prior to the ceremony to keep guests hydrated. You can also turn your ceremony cards into the perfect personal fan with a little popsicle stick. Whatever you do, don’t make the mistake and assume that the weather on your wedding day will be the perfect temperature and climate. Plan for the heat or cool, with the end goal in mind of not only keeping your guests comfortable but making the event comfortable and enjoyable for you and your wedding party too. 

One of the perks of planning a summer wedding is the opportunity to use your venue and space at its fullest capacity. When searching for venues, keep the season in mind. Don’t be afraid to utilize the whole space and make the best of your venue. Many couples choose to set up different activities for the cocktail and the reception. Or use the trees for some extra shade for your guests during the ceremony. Use your ceremony space wisely and plan on utilizing the features of your venue. Some of our favorite venue add-ons to make the space extra fun in these summer months are: 

  • Firepit: We love a good fire pit. So many memories occur around the fire and you can create a cozy space for the reception and include some yummy snacks. I mean, who doesn’t love a s’mores station! 

  • Lawn Games: Lawn games are an excellent reception or cocktail hour addition. Make the best use of the lawn or open space in your venue to create a fun area for all ages. Guests will stay entertained and be able to interact throughout your event. 

  • Dance Floor: Have you ever seen a dance floor under the stars? Rental companies often rent floating dance floors. Check with your venue and create a dance floor under the night sky. Add some twinkle lights or Italian light bulbs for some extra flair. 

Not only can you create fun and interactive spaces for your guests using the layout of your venue, but when it comes to decor– let your summer venue speak for itself! Venues in the summer blossom, literally. Many venues have features that are only available during the summer months. Ask your venue for pictures of summer weddings, so you can see what the landscaping looks like! The best part is if your venue is outdoors, you can use nature around you to enhance your wedding day. You’re able to save money on a florist and utilize what is around you. We’re thinking of flower pots, gardens, and even trees! Great creative with your space and think about how you can use your venue’s natural beauty on your wedding day. 

When it comes to attire, keep the weather in mind. As you search for your perfect wedding dress or wedding party attire, keep this word in mind: comfortable. Think about how your body regulates temperature and plan accordingly. You don’t want to be sweating it out on the dance floor. Plan your hairstyles with summer in mind, too. Yes, you may love yourself a down-do, but you may want to opt for a stylish braided updo to stay comfortable and cool. For the groom and groomsmen, search for outfits that provide options. You may want to ditch the coat at the reception, so shop with these adjustments in mind. Now, if you’re planning your wedding in the heat of the summer, think about swapping to a reception dress. With this option, you can keep it classic for the wedding and main portion of the reception, but switch to something comfortable and cool for the dancing. 

Not only are summer weddings popular, but they offer endless opportunities to utilize the venue to its fullest. Don’t be afraid to think outside the box and plan some additional outdoor entertainment for your guests. Work to keep your guests hydrated and comfortable throughout the event, by preparing for the heat, or summer storm. And, keep your event natural by using the natural beauty of the venue around you. If you need some extra help planning your summer event, reach out to a member of our team today. 


Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Seattle Wedding Planner with over 17 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

It's a Hot, Hot, Summer Wedding Season

A summer inspired wedding tablescape

Summer is one of our favorite seasons.

And everything about planning and hosting a summer wedding, is all about love and fun under the sun. Summer provides a lush backdrop and a colorful inspiration for any couple. Some of our favorite weddings we’ve ever planned and/or coordinated, were held in the summer. So, let’s go down our list of fresh, new summer ideas that will keep your guests entertained, and help your wedding go down in the record books. 

#01: Be Playful with Nature 
Summer provides a beautiful landscape and backdrop for any reception or ceremony. Choose a venue that features the beauty that summer provides. When it comes to florals and wedding decor, be sure to use flowers that can withstand the summer heat. No one likes a wilted hydrangea on a hot summer day. Select florals that are summer blooms and that can withstand the whole wedding day. Some of our favorites are tropical florals, desert blooms, or even a touch of cacti. Be creative and think outside the box with your floral selection. And, of course, be sure to use what nature provides with your venue itself. 

#02: Eclectic and Fresh 
We always look forward to seeing what color palettes and themes our summer clients select. Summer is all about beautiful sunny days and vibrant summer nights. When planning your color palette, think of fresh, bright, and fun summer hues that can spice up your event. Do not be afraid to mix colors or patterns. Work to create a space that shines brightly on a summer night. Add a variety of colors to keep your wedding light and airy, with lots of fun.

#03: Summer Hydration 
With the heat of summer, don’t forget to keep your guests and your wedding party cool with drinks. Now, drinks don’t always have to be alcoholic. You want to be sure that you are providing your guests with plenty of hydration, from water. Have a water station available for the whole event. Whether you choose to just serve tap water, bottled water, or infused water, you want to make sure that your guests are staying refreshed in the summer heat. For alcoholic beverages, have fun with your signature drinks! Keep it light and fresh with some new summer cocktail recipes. 

#04: Wedding Favor Fun 
Spice up the traditional wedding favor with something fun and practical in the summer weather. You can incorporate summer, in a fun and even practical way! Or, utilize what summer in your area has to offer, with a sampling from a local farmer’s market or garden. There are so many ways to get creative with wedding favors during these hot months. Some of our all time favorite summer-themed wedding favors are: 

  • Personalized Drink Koozies 

  • Personalized Sunglasses

  • Fans to Keep Cool 

  • Fresh Fruit 

  • Jar of Honey 


Whatever you choose, get creative and think of a fun, summer-themed way to surprise your guests. 

#05: Frozen Treats
Who doesn’t love a cool treat on a hot, summer day? One of our favorite memories as a child is waiting, hearing the ice cream truck jingle, and running after it. Ditch the usual dessert bar for your summer wedding this season. Many couples are opting to have a food truck, or dessert truck grace their wedding reception. Guests can enjoy a cold cup of shave ice, or even their favorite ice cream dessert from a local food truck. Frozen treats and desserts are a fun way to stay cool during your summer affair. 

#06: Thoughtful Timeline
When you sit down to create your timeline for your wedding day, keep the summer season in mind. Planning your ceremony for 2PM, may not be the best choice. Plan and look at the hottest times of day. You want to make sure that you keep your guests comfortable and that you stay cool in your wedding day attire. A popular ceremony start time for these summer months is an evening wedding, around 5PM or 6PM. Having an evening ceremony is the perfect timing for the sunset and allows a much more comfortable temperature. Guests won’t have the blaring sun beating down on them, and trust us – you’ll want some golden hour photos. Be thoughtful when you create your timeline, this includes thinking about the temperature when the reception is set to end. Summer nights can be chilly, so be prepared to keep your guests comfortable at all points of the day. 

Summer is a hot season for the wedding industry. It’s not only our busiest season, but it offers endless opportunities to get creative in your planning and create a memorable event for your wedding party, guests, and your partner. As you sit down to plan, utilize all summer has to offer and sneak in some summer treats. Don’t forget to keep your guests hydrated with fresh summer drinks and be thoughtful with your timeline to keep your guests happy and cool. If you do this, your wedding is sure to create some hot, hot memories. 


Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 17 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

Six Tips to Planning a Wedding in Less than Six Months

Are you the spontaneous type? Or the couple that are ready to immediately dive in and begin your lives together? A lot of couples who need to have a short timeline, or chose a short timeline by personal choice, may think that the only feasible option is to elope. Now, don’t get me wrong, we are always down for an elopement. Eloping is adventurous, can be friendly on the pocket, and get the job done – but some couples still want to opt for the big, traditional, wedding day event. Yes, it’s possible, but we definitely have recommendations for couples that chose this route for their wedding day. Let’s talk about how to plan and execute your wedding in less than six months. 

01: Hire the wedding planner you’ve always wanted. 
My first recommendation is going to be simple - hire that wedding planner you’ve always wanted. Wedding planners are an option for any bride, but for our last minute brides, or brides that want to tie the knot quickly, hiring a wedding planner would be key to handle all of the details and ensure your wedding dreams are possible. Wedding planners have a network of people. They know vendors personally and professionally and can navigate the short timeline through their network. Not only do they know the ins and out of the industry, but they will support all of the execution, from hiring to coordinating the details on the day of. They will decrease your stress and support you through the process.

02: Book ASAP!
Once you’ve set the date, start looking at venues and book as soon as possible. Many couples book months or even years in advance. You’re going to be in competition with many other couples and you may need to call around for cancellations. Please keep in mind that your options may be limited. You may need to expand your thinking and look into different options for venues. Get creative with your venues and find something that fits your needs and budget. Once your venue is booked, you’ll need to hire your other vendors. Book your most important vendors first, such as photographers, and caterers. 

03: Say yes, to the dress.
Now that the heavy details are complete, start searching for your dress and wedding party attire. Depending on the designer and dress you chose, you may have a few month wait in shipping and delivery time. If you’re lucky, sometimes designers or companies may have a backstock of the dress you chose. Our recommendation is to choose stores that have the opportunity to buy off the rack. Stores like David’s Bridal, or even small bridal boutiques, have the option to purchase dresses off the rack. So, call around and see what is available. Check to see if your size is offered in store and if there is an opportunity to buy the dress off the rack. Once purchased, you can choose to alter in store, or take your dress to an alterations company. Don’t wait to alter your dress, depending on the style and the alternation needs, you may have to have several alterations over the course of a few weeks or months. 

04: Notify your guests. 
Decide and make a plan to notify your guests of your upcoming nuptials. An efficient and quick way to send out save the dates are through digital invitations. Many wedding website companies or invitation companies offer the option to send your save the date via text messaging or email. If you want to send your save the dates and invites the old-fashioned way, through the postal service, there are a few considerations you’ll need to take. First, if you know you’re going to have a lot of guests traveling to your wedding, be sure to let them know as far in advance so they can plan air fare, travel and accommodations. Create your save the dates, send them off as soon as possible. Giving your guests ample time to make arrangements, will most likely give them more of an opportunity and a way to attend your wedding. Now, for your invites, don’t worry about sending those out until six weeks prior to your event. You’ve got time for that! 

05: Set realistic wedding party expectations. 
If you’ve been a part of a wedding party before, you know that there are set expectations if you chose to participate. Not only do you have to purchase the attire for the wedding day, but you are a part of the upcoming wedding festivities such as a bachelorette party and the bridal shower. And let’s not forget if you have to travel to the wedding from afar. If you chose to have a wedding party, before you ask your friends and loved ones, decide your expectations first. You don’t want your wedding party to be slammed with last minute expenses. Be respectful of the financial responsibilities and the time frame. Spending $1,000 may not be feasible for your friends. So stick to a budget and think about your wedding party. The short time frame may be difficult to navigate for some. So be sure to set realistic and budget-friendly wedding party expectations for your wedding party. 

06: Keep it simple!
When it comes to the details of your wedding day, keep it simple. With such a short timeline, you may not have time to plan an extravagant affair. Be precise with your planning and your overall vision for your wedding ceremony and reception. Think about what is actually doable with your time frame, that means having fifty DIY projects may not be in your future (unless you’re Martha Stewart). Talk with your planner and see what is manageable to create and execute for your wedding day. Be sure everything you order can be in advance. You don’t want any mishaps with the decor or false realities in what was ordered. Focus on what is a necessity, order it or purchase it, and make it doable for the day of. 

Now, it is totally doable to plan a wedding in a short time. We’ve even planned some weddings in just a few months. If you focus on the “must haves”, delegate some help, and hire a planner – your dream wedding can and will come true. Just remember to keep it simple, book the venue and vendors first, and knock out the most important details in a timely manner. If you’re a couple looking to tie the knot in less than a year, reach out to a member of our team! We’d love to help you make some magic happen. 


Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Seattle Wedding Planner with over 17 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.