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Labor Day Affair | Kate + Chuck | Port Gamble, WA.

February 3, 2022 Lori Losee

Photographer: Hatch Photography | Wedding Planner: Elegant Affairs | Florist: Oak and Fig Floral | Venue: Port Gamble Weddings | Caterer: Essence of the Thymes | Accommodations: Clearwater Casino Resort | DJ: Dubreezy Entertainment | Beauty: Bridal Beauty Agency | Rentals: Cort Party Rentals + Love Blooms

When planning your destination wedding in your home state already could be a challenge, but then you throw in moving states and a pandemic, but that doesn’t

Kate + Chuck wanted the perfect destination Port Gamble wedding for their Labor Day garden party affair to celebrate their love and commitment to one another.

We first started working with this dream couple in August 2019 for their September 2020 wedding. We got started right away putting together the dream vendor team. We had just about every single detail planned out before the pandemic hit. Kate + Chuck knew if they wanted to have the wedding they wanted they would need to postpone for a year, but they had something else planned to seal their love.

The two said I Do in a beautifully intimate celebration in Savannah, GA. along with their sweet pup on their original date.

Just when we thought we had overcome every obstacle thrown their way, we had to find a new beauty vendor and DJ less than 2 weeks before their big day. Luckily, we were able to find the most incredible replacements.

The wedding day couldn’t have been any more perfect. From the ceremony to cocktail hour, and reception, guests were really treated to an incredible day filled with laughter, happy tears, great food, and drinks.

What we loved best this day where all of the stunning decor and signage and I know Kate and Chuck got to have the day they had been dreaming about for so very long.

Thank you Kate + Chuck for allowing me to be part of your very special day and hope to see you both soon when you visit home.

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Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Seattle Wedding Planner with over 16 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

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Walla Walla Winery Wedding | Kendall + Marc | Abeja Winery

February 1, 2022 Lori Losee

Photographer: Betty Globa Photography | Wedding Planner: Elegant Affairs | Florist: Oak and Fig Floral | Venue: Abeja Winery | Catering: Castle Catering | DJ: Platinum Entertainment | Rentals: Cort Party Rentals + BBJ + Pedersens + Sandy’s U-Rent + | Beauty: Misbehaven Salon & Spa | Wedding Dress: A & Be Bridal Shop | Invitations: Minted

Kendall and Marc’s Abeja Winery wedding was a breath of fresh air! The couple added modern flair and chic style to the rustic venue, giving it a fresh look without taking away from any of the natural elegance. 

I first met the bride more than 10 years ago when I served as her sorority (Alpha Phi) advisor at Washington State University. I always had a special kind of relationship with Kendall and a really looked forward to visiting the sorority and hanging out with her. She would always include me in her weekend plans and I will never forget those live-out dance parties.

We stayed in touch over the years and loved hearing about her life and her adventure moving down to New Zealand for a few years. It was so great when she finally moved back home where we were reunited at a wedding I was planning where she was a bridesmaid in. It was so great connecting with her and finally meeting the love of her life Marc, who served as a groomsman.

I was over the moon when she first reached out to me shortly after getting engaged asking me to her wedding planner. I didn’t even hesitate, it was an honor to be part of this journey with these two for nearly 17 months.

Our first task was to find the perfect wedding venue! After some research, the couple landed on Abeja Winery in Walla Walla, WA. Taking a leap of faith, Kendall + Marc booked the venue only from the photos website and their Instagram account.

We first visited the site exactly a year before their scheduled wedding to see what the venue looked like and to create a wedding design that was perfect for the couple. It was such a huge help to see what the lighting would look like from all angles of the venue and what the heat was like.

This venue truly has it all. From the onsite lodging for the whole wedding party and family to the incredible indoor + outdoor locations for any weather situation, this is a dream location

But want to know the highlight of the venue for me?

It was the long entry driveway, which was the perfect location for their wedding dinner.

Initially, the design concept for their August wedding was an elevated rustic winery wedding, but once we got closer to the date the vision changed and I’m so glad it did. When meeting with Shane with Oak + Fig Floral, the floral design changed to a modern winery wedding with a white and black color palette with hints of greenery.

The dinner tablescape featured the venue’s incredible vineyard tables and chairs and we added a white sheer runner with black plates and napkins with gold flatware. The centerpieces were a dream with locally sourced fruits consisting of figs, blackberries, and grapes scattered along the length of the table with black taper candles and bud vases of stunning white florals.

Trust me when I say the tablescape transitioned beautifully as the sun set that evening.

Planning a destination wedding sometimes makes for a challenge, but then you throw in a global pandemic which makes it a little more complicated. At one point, since individual counties could decide their own rules when it came to the Phases, we were literally waiting on pins and needles to hear what their wedding would look like. Fortunately in May when we learned there would be no restrictions when it came to their wedding, and I think that’s when we could all finally take a deep breath.

Once we arrived in Walla Walla, the weather was perfect, and there was no smoke in sight (one concern we had from visiting the year before when the state was battling a massive wildfire in the area).

This was such a fun group to work with. I love when I get to see old friends and former clients as it makes the wedding that much more memorable.

This day couldn't have gone any more perfect! From a sentimental ceremony, officiated by Kendall’s best friend/bridesmaid Sammy whom she met while living in New Zealand to the incredible toasts by their friends and family.

As the sunset so perfectly, we transitioned from dinner to the barrel room for an epic dance party complete with an ice cream bar and late-night snacks consisting of corn dogs and tater tots.

Thank you Kendall + Marc for trusting me to plan your dream wedding. I love you two so very much!

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Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Seattle Wedding Planner with over 16 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

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Elevated Wedding Dinner | Nicole + Jeff | Russell's

January 27, 2022 Lori Losee

Wedding Photographer: Jerome Tso Photography | Wedding Planer: Elegant Affairs | Florist: Fena Flowers | Rentals: Cort Party Rental | Venue: Russell’s | Musicians: Acrobaleno Strings

When it comes to your wedding and all you want is to have an amazing meal surrounded by your family and friends and that’s exactly what we did for Nicole + Jeff for their August wedding celebration at Russell’s in Bothell, WA.

I remember the first time I met this incredible couple and their young daughter, Norah at our office. It was made very clear exacelty who the party was really for and it was for Norah. I remember laughing at the time, but really it was the truth. Every time I met with them, Norah talked about her party. So instead of having 2 clients, I really had 3.

One of my favorite meetings with the trio was our menu tasting. Besides the amazing food and drinks, I really loved getting to know this family and our conversation. This family is beyond special and I loved every minute got to be with them. The most fun conversation we had was all about Nicole’s wedding shoe selection. It was Jeff who wanted to make sure she had the perfect footwear with her wedding dress. I loved helping “shopping” for the shoes and in the end, he selected the perfect pair for Nicole and they were incredible.

In the midst of wedding planning, Nicole was also in the final stages of her master’s degree and with a toddler along with running a business can be stressful so we wanted to make sure they could focus on what they needed to.

Wedding day arrived and I knew to be prepared with tissues, but Jeff had that handled like always with a handkerchief. I knew from the beginning of us working together that Jeff was the crier and that was a beautiful understatement. When he had his first look with Norah, the waterworks started and continued when he saw Nicole for the first time and then during the ceremony which was officiated by a very close friend of theirs.

Now it was time to unveil their dining table. While guests were outside for cocktail hour, we transformed the room into an elevated dining experience. The beautiful vineyard tables from Cort Party Rental combined with my favorite vineyard chairs were the perfect pieces in that space. From the candles to the florals, everything was perfect for their guests.

After a great meal, Jeff + Nicole treated their guests to a dessert bar, to end all dessert bars.

We have this beautiful family the wedding celebration they wanted and seeing their faces of how happy they were was the best feeling ever.

Jeff, Nicole, and Norah, I hope you three are enjoying your life chapter in Arizona and I hope to see you three very soon.

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Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Seattle Wedding Planner with over 16 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

Let's chat about your wedding celebration!
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