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Calling all Summer Brides – the Ultimate May Challenge! 

May 2, 2024 Lori Losee
A Summer Bride on her wedding day.

Are you a summer 2024 bride? First and foremost, congratulations on your upcoming nuptials. Whether you’re a June, July or August bride, your big day is quickly approaching and we are here for it! You’ve probably already checked off your big items (or so we hope..). This means your vendors are selected, your reception and caterer are good to go, and now it’s time to sort all some minor details. So, let’s dive in and talk about your May checklist challenge! I mean, we love a good challenge. Tackle on things each week this month and you will be sure to be ready for your summer wedding! So, get your calendars out – our turn on your printer, because you’re going to want to dive into this month’s challenge!

Week 1: 

If you haven’t already scheduled your hair and make-up trial, go ahead and schedule it. You want to ensure that you schedule it at a time of day where you can put your makeup to full use. We suggest scheduling it at the time, or near the time, you’d get ready on the day of! Bring all your accessories, including your veil, earrings, and whatever else you have personally selected. 


Week 2: 

It is time. It is time to sit down with your partner and write your wedding vows. Now, writing your vows may consist of going with a traditional route, or using a little copy and paste to make it happen. But it’s best to knock these out prior to your wedding day. You can make it a fun at-home date night, or write your vows somewhere scenic. I mean, might as well create some memories while tackling this week! 

Week 3: 

This week is all about music and fun! Bust out the boom box, okay – maybe just your Amazon music app, and start selecting your music for your DJ or live band! As you create your perfect set list, be sure to select and take notes of the following songs: 

  • Processional 

  • Bride/Groom Entrance

  • Recessional 

  • Entrance to Reception 

  • Mother/Groom Dance

  • Father/Daughter Dance

  • First Dance

  • Cake Cut

  • Last Dance

You’ll also want to develop a list of DO NOTs. Think about what songs you don’t want played at your wedding, or include genres that you don’t want to hear. 

Week 4: 

Head to your beauty store and grab items you need to replenish or find your beauty regimen! A good rule of thumb is you don’t want to start any new skin care routines prior to your wedding. You want to continue your beauty regimen, and not stray too far. Now is not the time to get a chemical peel or try a beauty product that you are unsure of. Don’t cut your hair without consulting your wedding hair stylist, and don’t make any last minute beauty decisions. Make your appointment if you choose to get your lashes done or teeth whitened. We recommended getting all these things a few weeks prior to make sure you’re happy with the outcome before your wedding day. 

So, print this out, mark your calendars or your planners and tackle these items this month. We find that like any task or event, it’s best to organize your needs and prepare for them. This month is all about getting your pre-wedding beauty nailed down and finalizing your vows and wedding song list. Most importantly, these can all be fun events. Don’t stress about them, enjoy time with your partner or loved ones and make the most of this time! Stay tuned for next month, for more items to check off your list! Remember - YOU’VE GOT THIS!

For our organized guys or gals – print this freebie below!


Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 18 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

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How to choose the Right Wedding Inspo

April 25, 2024 Lori Losee

As we spend more time in the wedding industry, it is clear that more couples are opting for unique, non-traditional moments throughout the wedding process and planning day. Don’t get us wrong, we love a traditional wedding, and there is nothing wrong with going down that path, but more couples are leaning towards creating moments that are unique to them. Which, alternatively, walk in a different direction from the traditional weddings that we’ve grown accustomed to. If you and your partner are wanting to create a unique twist or statement on your wedding day, then this blog post is for you! We’ve gathered some of our favorite non-traditional twists that are bound to make a statement. 

#01: Say yes, to your pet! 

So, we must love dogs, because this is one of our favorite non-traditional twists to a ceremony. We always want our families and loved ones to be a part of our big days, but sometimes it’s easy to forget our furry friends, our pets! Pets are significant in our lives. They are man’s best friend of course! There’s nothing wrong with having your four legged companion walk you down the aisle. We’ve had our fair share of couples who chose to have their dog be their ring bearer or send them off to meet their partner at the end of the aisle. If you’re leaning towards having your pet present on your wedding day, be sure to look for venues that can accommodate your request. Outdoor venues are the easiest choice for our pet loving couples. Parks, beaches, and outdoor venues can often accommodate your request! 


#02: Romantic & Regent Accessories

We can thank Bridgerton for this next fancy twist! We have seen more couples choose to lean on the regency style. This means empire waistlines, simple, clean lines, and bridal gloves. Yes, bridal gloves! But, ditch the satin and opt for something romantic like organza or tulle. If you’re planning on altering your dress shorter, ask your alterations to utilize the excess fabric to make this fun accessory. 


#03: Flexible Seating 

Flexible seating at your ceremony is a fun way to spice things up and to really let your decor shine! There is no rule in the wedding book that says all of your seating must be the same. In fact, we’ve had couples rent furniture such as couches, or vintage chairs for their special day! We’ve even had a few couples select wood logs, benches, and hay bales for their ceremony space. Seating is a fun and creative way to play with decor and incorporate your style. You can even bring in a special seat for your sweetheart table! Don’t be afraid to play with seating! 

#04: Pops of Color to your Bridal Attire 

This is a unique idea that we’ve seen pop up more and more! Don’t limit yourself to just white, or feel like you are limited to certain shades! Feel free to explore other options that feature other colors! If you love yourself in a particular color, see what options are available for you! You do not need to restrict yourself in the search for your perfect dress. Pops of colors can reflect your wedding color palette and your personality. 

#05: Creative Food Choices 

More couples are getting creative with their catering choices at their wedding. Some of our most memorable weddings feature our couple’s favorite foods. Off the bat, I can name my favorite wedding, because of the food. This bride and groom had their favorite pizza place catered, including an assortment of pizzas and salads classically arranged. For dessert, they asked their favorite pie food truck to serve their guests right outside of the reception doors. Then, we ran up to their favorite burger joint and ordered 50 cheeseburgers and fries for a late night snack. Guests raved about their creative food options and it was such a fun way to incorporate the couple’s favorite places around town. 

#06: Audio Guestbooks

Audio guests books are a fun way to get your guests’ well wishes on your wedding day! There are voicemails and audiobook services that you can book for your wedding day. Your guests will be able to record their well-wishes in lieu of writing. Some companies even offer a retro phone for your guests to record into! This is a great option for couples who want a guest book, but want to ditch the traditional guest book picture frame or book. 

#07: Pick your Favorite Restaurant 

Why not pick your favorite restaurant to tie the knot in? This is ideal for couples wanting a smaller ceremony and reception, but it is a creative way to eat delicious food and celebrate with the people you love. There’s many perks to having your wedding at a restaurant. You don’t need to bring in any additional rentals, the chairs and tables will be provided, and dishware will be set to go. You know if it’s your favorite restaurant, you will be more than happy with the food and that your guests will enjoy your selection! You can even opt for a restaurant that you had your first date in – tie it into your wedding journey! 



These are just a few ideas that you can incorporate to personalize your wedding. Now, we understand that straying away from tradition can be scary, but this is your wedding and it is what you make of it! Simple ways to make a non-traditional statement is through your wedding attire, don’t be afraid to get creative with your food, or even use your favorite restaurant as the venue! And if you’ve got a friend with four legs, don’t leave them out of your big day – make accommodations and incorporate them into your wedding. But, whatever you decide when planning, make your wedding speak to you and your partner. After all, this day is about you and your love. Happy planning!


Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 18 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

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7 Non-Traditional Ideas to Make a Statement

April 18, 2024 Lori Losee

As we spend more time in the wedding industry, it is clear that more couples are opting for unique, non-traditional moments throughout the wedding process and planning day. Don’t get us wrong, we love a traditional wedding, and there is nothing wrong with going down that path, but more couples are leaning towards creating moments that are unique to them. Which, alternatively, walk in a different direction from the traditional weddings that we’ve grown accustomed to. If you and your partner are wanting to create a unique twist or statement on your wedding day, then this blog post is for you! We’ve gathered some of our favorite non-traditional twists that are bound to make a statement. 

#01: Say yes, to your pet! 

So, we must love dogs, because this is one of our favorite non-traditional twists to a ceremony. We always want our families and loved ones to be a part of our big days, but sometimes it’s easy to forget our furry friends, our pets! Pets are significant in our lives. They are man’s best friend of course! There’s nothing wrong with having your four legged companion walk you down the aisle. We’ve had our fair share of couples who chose to have their dog be their ring bearer or send them off to meet their partner at the end of the aisle. If you’re leaning towards having your pet present on your wedding day, be sure to look for venues that can accommodate your request. Outdoor venues are the easiest choice for our pet loving couples. Parks, beaches, and outdoor venues can often accommodate your request! 


#02: Romantic & Regent Accessories

We can thank Bridgerton for this next fancy twist! We have seen more couples choose to lean on the regency style. This means empire waistlines, simple, clean lines, and bridal gloves. Yes, bridal gloves! But, ditch the satin and opt for something romantic like organza or tulle. If you’re planning on altering your dress shorter, ask your alterations to utilize the excess fabric to make this fun accessory. 


#03: Flexible Seating 

Flexible seating at your ceremony is a fun way to spice things up and to really let your decor shine! There is no rule in the wedding book that says all of your seating must be the same. In fact, we’ve had couples rent furniture such as couches, or vintage chairs for their special day! We’ve even had a few couples select wood logs, benches, and hay bales for their ceremony space. Seating is a fun and creative way to play with decor and incorporate your style. You can even bring in a special seat for your sweetheart table! Don’t be afraid to play with seating! 

#04: Pops of Color to your Bridal Attire 

This is a unique idea that we’ve seen pop up more and more! Don’t limit yourself to just white, or feel like you are limited to certain shades! Feel free to explore other options that feature other colors! If you love yourself in a particular color, see what options are available for you! You do not need to restrict yourself in the search for your perfect dress. Pops of colors can reflect your wedding color palette and your personality. 

#05: Creative Food Choices 

More couples are getting creative with their catering choices at their wedding. Some of our most memorable weddings feature our couple’s favorite foods. Off the bat, I can name my favorite wedding, because of the food. This bride and groom had their favorite pizza place catered, including an assortment of pizzas and salads classically arranged. For dessert, they asked their favorite pie food truck to serve their guests right outside of the reception doors. Then, we ran up to their favorite burger joint and ordered 50 cheeseburgers and fries for a late night snack. Guests raved about their creative food options and it was such a fun way to incorporate the couple’s favorite places around town. 

#06: Audio Guestbooks

Audio guests books are a fun way to get your guests’ well wishes on your wedding day! There are voicemails and audiobook services that you can book for your wedding day. Your guests will be able to record their well-wishes in lieu of writing. Some companies even offer a retro phone for your guests to record into! This is a great option for couples who want a guest book, but want to ditch the traditional guest book picture frame or book. 

#07: Pick your Favorite Restaurant 

Why not pick your favorite restaurant to tie the knot in? This is ideal for couples wanting a smaller ceremony and reception, but it is a creative way to eat delicious food and celebrate with the people you love. There’s many perks to having your wedding at a restaurant. You don’t need to bring in any additional rentals, the chairs and tables will be provided, and dishware will be set to go. You know if it’s your favorite restaurant, you will be more than happy with the food and that your guests will enjoy your selection! You can even opt for a restaurant that you had your first date in – tie it into your wedding journey! 

These are just a few ideas that you can incorporate to personalize your wedding. Now, we understand that straying away from tradition can be scary, but this is your wedding and it is what you make of it! Simple ways to make a non-traditional statement is through your wedding attire, don’t be afraid to get creative with your food, or even use your favorite restaurant as the venue! And if you’ve got a friend with four legs, don’t leave them out of your big day – make accommodations and incorporate them into your wedding. But, whatever you decide when planning, make your wedding speak to you and your partner. After all, this day is about you and your love. Happy planning!


Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 18 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

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