Your Wedding Design Style Quiz: Discover Your Perfect Wedding Aesthetic (And How to Achieve It)

Planning your wedding is one of the most exciting experiences of your life, but with so many styles and aesthetics to choose from, it can also feel a bit overwhelming. Are you drawn to romantic, dreamy vibes or bold, modern designs? Do you picture a rustic outdoor celebration or a glamorous black-tie affair? Finding your wedding design style is key to creating a cohesive and stunning celebration that truly reflects who you and your partner are.

That’s why we’ve crafted the ultimate Wedding Design Style Quiz to help you uncover your perfect aesthetic—and, of course, we’re here to help you bring that vision to life!

Why Knowing Your Wedding Design Style Matters

Your wedding design style serves as the foundation for every element of your big day. From your venue and decor to your dress and florals, your chosen aesthetic ensures a cohesive and visually stunning experience. Plus, knowing your style helps streamline decision-making, making the wedding planning process smoother and more enjoyable.

Ready to discover your perfect wedding design style? Let’s dive in.

Take the Quiz: What’s Your Wedding Design Style?

Answer these questions to pinpoint your aesthetic:

1. Where would you love to say "I do"?

   • A. In a lush garden surrounded by flowers

   • B. A modern loft with sleek, clean lines

   • C. A rustic barn with twinkling string lights

   • D. A glamorous ballroom with crystal chandeliers

   • E. On a sandy beach with the ocean breeze

2. What colors make your heart sing?

   • A. Soft pastels like blush and lavender

   • B. Bold tones like black, gold, or deep emerald

   • C. Earthy hues like sage, terracotta, and cream

   • D. Classic shades like white, champagne, and navy

   • E. Bright tropical colors like coral, turquoise, and yellow

3. Which bouquet would you carry?

   • A. A whimsical arrangement of garden roses and peonies

   • B. A minimalist bouquet of orchids or calla lilies

   • C. A hand-tied mix of wildflowers and greenery

   • D. A structured bouquet of white roses and anemones

   • E. A vibrant mix of tropical flowers and greenery

4. What’s your dream reception vibe?

   • A. Romantic and dreamy with candles and fairy lights

   • B. Sleek and chic with geometric accents

   • C. Cozy and rustic with wooden tables and mason jars

   • D. Elegant and timeless with gold accents

   • E. Fun and lively with tiki bars and vibrant decor

5. Describe your ideal wedding attire:

   • A. A flowy, ethereal gown with lace details

   • B. A sleek, modern dress or tailored suit

   • C. A boho-inspired gown with unique textures

   • D. A classic ball gown or tuxedo

   • E. A breezy dress perfect for dancing barefoot

Results: Your Perfect Wedding Design Style

Mostly A’s: Romantic Garden
Your style is all about romance and elegance. Picture soft florals, delicate lace, and candlelit tables under a canopy of twinkling lights. You love the idea of a garden ceremony followed by a reception filled with lush blooms and dreamy details.

How to achieve it: Opt for a venue with outdoor or garden settings. Use a soft color palette of blush, lavender, and ivory. Incorporate plenty of floral arrangements, soft draping, and delicate details like calligraphy place cards.

Mostly B’s: Modern Minimalist
You’re drawn to sleek, clean lines and a contemporary aesthetic. Your wedding is all about sophistication and simplicity, with a touch of boldness.

How to achieve it: Choose a modern venue like an art gallery or loft space. Stick to a monochromatic or bold color palette with metallic accents. Incorporate geometric decor, statement lighting, and minimalist floral arrangements.

Mostly C’s: Rustic Boho
You’re all about that laid-back, earthy vibe. Think woodsy venues, wildflowers, and cozy decor. Your wedding is equal parts casual and chic, with a touch of bohemian flair.

How to achieve it: Host your wedding in a barn, vineyard, or outdoor venue. Use earthy tones like terracotta, sage, and cream. Add natural elements like wood, macramé, and pampas grass to your decor.

Mostly D’s: Timeless Elegance
You’re a classic couple who loves timeless sophistication. Your wedding is a black-tie affair filled with luxurious touches and a polished, traditional vibe.

How to achieve it: Look for a grand venue like a ballroom or historic estate. Use a classic color palette of white, gold, and navy. Incorporate elegant details like crystal chandeliers, chiavari chairs, and refined floral arrangements.

Mostly E’s: Tropical Escape
You’re dreaming of a destination wedding or a celebration that feels like a getaway. Your style is vibrant, fun, and full of life, with nods to tropical elegance.

How to achieve it: Host your wedding at a beach or tropical resort. Use a bright color palette with coral, turquoise, and yellow. Incorporate tropical flowers, palm leaves, and bold, breezy decor.

Next Steps: Bring Your Vision to Life

Now that you know your wedding design style, it’s time to make your vision a reality. Here’s how:

1. Find the Right Venue
   Your venue sets the stage for your entire aesthetic. Whether it’s a garden, a barn, a ballroom, or a beach, make sure your venue aligns with your chosen style.

2. Work with a Planner
   That’s where we come in! At Elegant Affairs, we specialize in turning your dream wedding aesthetic into a reality. From selecting the perfect vendors to ensuring every detail reflects your style, we’re here to guide you every step of the way.

3. Curate Your Decor
   Lean into your chosen aesthetic with intentional decor choices. This includes everything from your table settings and floral arrangements to your lighting and signage.

4. Personalize Your Day
   Infuse your personality into your wedding with personal touches, like custom cocktails, unique signage, or DIY elements that reflect your love story.

Let’s Create Your Dream Wedding Together

Discovering your wedding design style is the first step in creating a celebration that feels authentically you. Whether you’re a romantic garden bride or a modern minimalist couple, Elegant Affairs is here to bring your vision to life. Ready to start planning? Let’s chat and make your wedding day as unforgettable as your love story.

---

Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 19 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

Capturing the Beauty of the Season

How do you plan on capturing the beauty of the season in the fall? Have you sat down with your photographer and made a plan on capturing not only the moments of your wedding, but how to incorporate the season’s beauty into your photos? Fall is a beautiful season alone. Now imagine saying “I do” amongst the glory autumn has to offer. Most fall couples select fall for the season. They want to be immersed in all the season has to offer. We’ve worked more than a handful of weddings in this season and we’ve definitely learned tips and tricks from our favorite photographers. There is a way to not only capture all of the beautiful moments between you, your partner, and your family and all the season has to offer. 

#01: Use your Surroundings
We highly suggest you meet with your photographer at your venue. Especially if your photographer has not worked at the venue prior. Most of the time, photographers are pretty familiar with the area, or vendor. But it never hurts to ask them to meet you, at the time of day you plan on tying the knot. You’ll want to search for spots around the venue that feature the landscape of the venue and dynamics of fall. Search for gorgeous spots of scenery, tree lines, and focus on being in the nature, not just standing in front of it. Be immersed in fall and all mother nature has to offer. 

#02: Find your Lighting! 
Fall is filled with gorgeous opportunities for lighting. Fall features the most beautiful golden hours. There is something about the autumnal landscape and when the light hits the land. Step outside, intentionally plan to hit golden hour and we promise you, you and your partner will have glowing nuptial shots. Take advantage of the natural lighting and step outside into nature. Plan on carving some time between the ceremony and reception to take intimate shots in nature. Your guests can enjoy a brief cocktail hour and you can enjoy some time with your spouse in all that nature has to offer. 

#03: Utilize the Colors of Fall 
Whether you chose to incorporate fall colors into your overall theme or palette. We love fall for it’s rich colors, tones, dark and moody hues, and bright lighting. There is definitely double the opportunity if you choose to decorate with fall decorations, like gourds, pumpkins, seasonal blooms, and colors. You can pair and elevate the season, so don’t worry that your wedding will look like Hobby Lobby - you can make fall decor, modern and sophisticated. 

# 04: Get Out and About 
This one takes a little bit more planning, but we recommend you get out and about, and get moving around the town with your wedding planning. Instead of just taking wedding photos at your venue, hop in the car or party bus and shoot some documentary style photos around the town. Capturing fall in the beauty of the city is amazing. We love seeing our couple explore Tacoma and Seattle during the season. Some of our favorite candid shots come from these adventures. You can even through on a cute accessory, have that excuse to buy that cute “Mrs” leather jacket you’ve been eying and take season pics around the city. 

#05: Incorporate Seasonal Elements
If I were to say “I do” again, I would honestly select fall to the backdrop to our wedding. Bottom line, fall has so much to offer. There is a plentiful bounty of items at the farmers market, from pumpkins, gourds, sunflowers, farmer’s market bouquets, fresh fruits. In Eastern Washington there is an area called Green Bluff, that features breweries and apple orchids galore. Incorporating autumn into your wedding will help you establish your wedding backdrop and provide beautiful seasonal touches. So whether you plan on choosing a venue that incorporates fall, or carefully selecting seasonal touches, embrace the season wholly. 

#06: Find the Right Photographer 
Finding the right photographer to fit your needs is so important, we cannot stress this enough. You want to meet with photographers that not only share your style, but understand your vision. Whether you want sepia filled photos, candid shots, or want crisp and clean documentary style photos – you need to find the right photographer for you. Once your wedding day has come and gone, your photos are what will make the memories last. Budget appropriately and meet with photographers that share your vision. 

An autumn wedding is THE backdrop. It’s like no other. The landscape, the colors, it is truly picture perfect. Find and meet with your photographer to develop your vision and time frame for taking the perfect fall shots. Don’t be afraid to step outside and explore all that nature or the city has to offer seasonally. Use this imagery and nature to tell a story of your love and capture all of the moments from the biggest day of your lfe. 

---

Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 19 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

Festive Winter Wedding Cocktails

Are you looking for a way to keep your guests warm during your wedding ceremony and reception? One of our favorite ways to keep your guests warm is with the addition of festive winter wedding cocktails — or mocktails! They are a fun way to incorporate some of our favorite winter flavors and add a little bit of adventure to your big day. You can even work with your bartender to create signature cocktails to reflect you, your partner, and your overall wedding theme!  Whether you like fresh or spices, we’ve got a cocktail, or mocktail for you and your guests to try! So, grab a shaker and a glass, see what is in your pantry or fridge and let’s get some festive drinks rolling! 

Cranberry-Orange Whiskey Cocktail 
Nothing screams fall or the holidays like Cranberry. And we’re not talking about the cranberries from a can, we’re talking about fresh cranberries with a hint of orange. Citrus is truly featured, paired with a darker whiskey. Garnished with a fresh orange peel and cranberries make it a festive affair. Consider adding a fresh herb, like thyme to add in some greenery and you have a festive cocktail that will delight your guests. Recipe: Equal parts cranberry and orange juice, whiskey – your choice of course! Add a hint of triple sec, lemon juice and simple syrup for sweetness. Top it off with ginger beer cranberries, an orange peel and thyme for a garnish. To swap it for a mocktail – skip the whiskey and add more non-alcoholic ginger beer. 

Bourbon and Spiced Pear Cocktail 

Often people consider fruit to be a summer fruit, when in fact fruit can be a staple of a winter wedding. From decor, to food and drink, adding fresh fruit can brighten any festivity! Select your favorite bourbon, a hint of orange, and pear juice with all spice and cinnamon to create a warm drink. Pour over ice and serve in a short, cocktail tumbler. Recipe: Prepare pear puree, or use an all natural pear juice. Combine juice or puree with a dash of honey, lemon juice, and seltzer or tonic weather. Add your preferred bourbon, ginger beer (non-alcoholic or alcoholic) with allspice and cinnamon. Pour over ice, and serve in a stemless wine glass or short cocktail tumbler. 

Hot Cocoa, with a Twist 
We love a good hot cocoa bar. This appeals to guests of all ages, and you can even add in a little 21+ over twist. You’ll want to create a hot cocoa bar, but add elevated touches, such as fresh mint leaves and peppermint sticks. If you’re not a peppermint fan, you can create a Mexican Hot Chocolate, or forget the mint overall.  Recipe: For the hot cocoa powder, opt for a rich hot cocoa, such as dark chocolate or a gourmet milk chocolate. The boozy twist, is a dash of creme de menthe and a mint leaf for a garnish. Ensure that milk is offered, in lieu of water, to create depth and add warmth to the hot cocoa. 

Peppermint Moscow Mule 
Moscow mules are a modern day classic. They are a great option for a refreshing summer drink, but can also be festive during the winter months! Create a classic Moscow mule, but add a candy cane, or peppermint stick and you’ll have a festive winter drink! These can either be served as a mocktail – just leave out the liquor! It is a great option, that is sure to be refreshing on your guests’ palette. Recipe: Select your favorite vodka as a base and add in peppermint schnapps. Top off your cocktail with ginger beer, fresh lime juice, and garnish with candy canes and mints! Don’t forget to serve in a festive copper mug. 

Classic French 75 
I don’t know what it is about the holidays, but when I think of the holidays, I think of a French 75. Maybe it is the bubbly, or that I always snag one before seeing the Nutcracker, but it is classic, traditional, and sure to lighten your festivities on your wedding day! The best part, is this is a very simple cocktail and perfect for a celebration of love.  Recipe: Select your favorite gin, add champagne or prosecco, and fresh squeezed lemon juice. Add simple syrup for added sweetness and shake over ice. Pour in a vintage or classic stemmed glass and garnish with a lemon peel. 

We can’t forget about our gents and girlies that enjoy good mocktails. All of the drinks can be swapped for non-alcoholic liquor or you can leave out the alcohol all together. As you craft your festive drinks, think about what will appeal to your seasonal palette, remain on budget, and won’t take too much time to make. Select drinks that are reasonable and keep the ingredient list on a low. Once you select your cocktails, or mocktails, create festive signage and don’t be afraid to get creative with the names. Ensure that your drink station or bar is easily accessible for all guests and that drinks are clearly listed. If you do choose to serve signature drinks, with alcohol, ensure that there is a limit or your bartenders do not overserve. Yes, we want guests to have a festive time, but we also care about your guests' safety. Drink responsibly and ensure that your guests have safe travel to and from the reception. 

---

Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Seattle Wedding Planner with over 19 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.