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The Benefits of Hiring a Professional Wedding Planner in 2025

January 16, 2025 Lori Losee

Wedding planning, from your engagement to the moment you say “I Do” is a careful and cherished process. There are so many decisions and details that go into each wedding day and with modern technology there are so many different weddings to add to your vision board. But behind most of the weddings we see as we scroll through social media, is a hard working team of wedding professionals that enable the couple to have their vision come to life. There are so many arguments that we can go over to explain the reasons why hiring a wedding planner. We could probably sit all day discussing this, as we know the value of having a wedding professional’s support – I mean we live it and breathe it on a daily basis! So, we’ve narrowed down our top benefits of hiring a wedding planning professional. 

#01: Save Time & Money 
You’re probably thinking, wait – I have to spend money to hire a wedding planner – how are we actually saving money? Wedding planners can often save their couples money. They are tied to a network of wedding professionals and preferred vendors. They have know vendors that can fit your budget, or may even be able to negotiate some of the costs on your behalf. They are also the little bug in your ear that remind you constantly to stay within your budget. Wedding planners will help you find cost-efficient solutions and ensure that you stay within your budget. Not only do wedding planners save you money, but they handle so many situations that would normally consume your time. Whether they communicate with vendors, handle walk-throughs, find quotes, they coordinate moments behind the scenes, which in turn free up your time. 

#02: Expert Guidance
Wedding planners are experts in the wedding industry. They are professionals in and beyond the local area. Many have years of experience, be sure to ask for their portfolio and client testimonies during your initial consults! But, they have been through thick and thin, know what professionals to work with and stay clear of. They can provide insight on how to make your wedding come to life, and how to fit it all within your budget. They offer a level of creativity as well as an effective guide through the whole process. 

#03: Vendor Meetings and Selections 
Selecting vendors that are right for your vision, as well as your budget, can be the most difficult part of the process. Wedding planners will help you meet and select vendors that will help make your wedding a success. Trust me, they know who and who not to work with. They will ensure that you are working with vendors that fit within your budget, are qualified professionals, and are able to support your wedding vision. Not only do wedding planners support you with selecting vendors, they can be in charge of all communications leading up to your wedding. They finalize plans, attend vendor planning meetings, ensure that everyone is aware of the timeline for the day, and that the gap for miscommunications are closed. 

#04: Emergency Planning
Emergencies and problems can arise. As much as we hate to see them happen, they do happen, life happens after all. Wedding planners can support any problems that occur along the wedding planning road and help navigate these tricky situations that may arise on your wedding day with grace. Many times, we handle these emergencies so quickly and effectively that the couple are blissfully unaware that anything occurred until after the wedding day.

#05: Overall Experience Enhancement 
One of the best reasons to hire a wedding planner is they enhance your overall experience and your guests. You and your partner are a priority and so are your guests’ comfort and overall experience. We support and field any questions your guests may have and we work to create a welcoming environment. You’ve got a question? We will find an answer. Our goal is for everyone to feel comfortable so the focus can be on celebrating you and your partners’ love! 

#06: Keeping Things on Time
Timelines are so important on your wedding day! We create timelines from the start to finish, and we mean when the doors close! A wedding planner has the knowledge and expertise to create a timeline that will ensure your wedding day goes according to plan. This includes what time vendors will arrive, when your bridesmaids need to be at hair and makeup, down to how long your dad will have to toast. Wedding planners keep your wedding day running like a smooth working machine. 

#07: Stress Free Day 
On your wedding day, we want you and your partner to enjoy your special day without stress. All logistics and problem-solving should be left to us, the professionals. Wedding planners coordinate the events, ensure that everything runs smoothly, handle scheduling, and deal with anything that may go wrong during the event. Our team always tells our couples that we want them to have a stress-free day where they can focus on enjoying their celebration without any worry. If there is any sole benefit for hiring a wedding planner, this would be it – to ensure that you don’t spend your day worrying. We want your day to be enjoyable and stress-free. 


If you’re on the fence about hiring a wedding planner for your 2025 wedding, we beg you to lean towards hiring someone. There are so many benefits, even beyond this list. Wedding planners handle so many situations behind the scenes to ensure that you can truly enjoy your wedding day. We ensure that everything runs well, stays within your budget, help you select vendors that fit your needs and your wants, and create a stress-free day in which you can truly just enjoy. There are countless benefits to hiring a wedding professional, so if you’re just embarking on this journey – please schedule a consultation today. 


Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 19 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

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How to Successfully Navigate Wedding Shows: Insider Tips from Your Wedding Planning Pros

January 9, 2025 Lori Losee
How to successfully navigate a wedding show.

Attending a wedding show is like stepping into a wonderland of wedding inspiration. It’s exciting, overwhelming, and filled with endless possibilities for your big day. But how do you make the most of it without getting lost in the sea of tulle and vendor booths? As experienced wedding planners, we’re here to guide you through successfully navigating wedding shows so you leave inspired, informed, and on track to create the wedding of your dreams.

Let’s dive into our expert tips on how to prepare, what to look for, and how to make wedding shows work for you!

Know What You Want Before You Go

Wedding shows are brimming with options, from florists to photographers and everything in between. To make the most of your time:

  • Define Your Priorities: Know which aspects of your wedding you need to focus on. Are you looking for a caterer, venue, or DJ? Having a clear vision helps you stay on track.

  • Create a Vision Board: Whether it’s on Pinterest or a physical board, compile images and ideas to bring with you. Vendors love seeing your style so they can tailor their pitches to your aesthetic.

  • Set Your Budget: Be prepared to discuss pricing with vendors. Knowing your limits ensures you’re connecting with vendors within your range.

Pre-Register and Plan Your Day

Wedding shows can get crowded, and the best booths are often the busiest. To maximize your experience:

  • Pre-Register Online: Many shows offer discounts or incentives for early registration. Plus, it saves you time at check-in.

  • Research the Vendor List: Check the show’s website to see which vendors will be there. Highlight the ones you want to visit and prioritize those booths.

  • Plan Your Timing: Arrive early to beat the crowds and have more one-on-one time with vendors. If possible, plan to stay for the entire event to take in everything.

Dress Comfortably and Bring Essentials

Wedding shows often mean walking, standing, and carrying materials. Be prepared with:

  • Comfortable Shoes: Trust us—heels are not your friend here.

  • A Tote Bag or Backpack: Vendors will shower you with brochures, samples, and swag. A sturdy bag helps you keep it all organized.

  • Notebook and Pen: Take notes on vendors you loved, ideas that sparked your interest, and questions you have.

  • Pre-Printed Labels: Save time filling out forms by bringing labels with your name, wedding date, and contact info. Vendors will love you for it!

Ask the Right Questions

You’re meeting potential vendors who could make or break your big day. Don’t shy away from asking detailed questions:

  • What’s your availability for our wedding date?

  • What’s your experience with our chosen venue or wedding style?

  • Do you offer customizable packages?

  • Can we see examples of your work or client testimonials?

  • What’s your deposit policy, and when is the final payment due?

Take Advantage of Discounts and Promotions

Many vendors offer exclusive discounts for couples who book at the wedding show. Be prepared to:

  • Bring Your Calendar: If you’re ready to book, having your availability on hand is essential.

  • Ask About Show Specials: Vendors often offer discounts, freebies, or upgrades for signing contracts at the event.

  • Negotiate Smartly: If you love a vendor but need time to think, ask if they’ll honor the discount for a short period after the show.

Stay Organized Post-Show

After collecting stacks of brochures and business cards, you’ll need a system to sort through everything:

  • Create Categories: Divide materials into categories like “Must-Have,” “Maybe,” and “Not for Us.”

  • Follow Up Quickly: Vendors meet hundreds of couples at shows, so reach out soon to remind them who you are and ask any follow-up questions.

  • Schedule Consultations: Narrow your list and set up meetings with your top vendors to discuss your needs in detail.

Keep an Open Mind

While it’s great to have a plan, some of the best ideas come when you least expect them:

  • Explore New Trends: Wedding shows are the perfect place to discover unique ideas, from interactive photo booths to cutting-edge decor.

  • Talk to Vendors Outside Your List: You may fall in love with a vendor or service you hadn’t considered.

  • Engage with Fellow Couples: Chatting with other couples can give you fresh ideas and insights.

8. Don’t Forget to Have Fun

Wedding planning can be stressful, but wedding shows are meant to be an enjoyable part of the journey. Take time to:

  • Sample the Food: Many caterers offer delicious samples. Enjoy the perks of being a bride or groom-to-be!

  • Snap Photos: Document your favorite setups, floral arrangements, or unique details for future reference.

  • Soak in the Inspiration: From runway shows to stunning decor displays, let yourself be inspired.

Why Hiring a Wedding Planner Makes Wedding Shows Even Better

Here’s a little secret: having a wedding planner by your side makes navigating wedding shows a breeze. As professionals, we know how to:

  • Guide You to the Right Vendors: Based on your style and budget, we’ll steer you toward vendors that fit your needs.

  • Ask the Hard Questions: We know what to look for and what red flags to avoid.

  • Save You Time and Stress: With our expertise, you can focus on enjoying the experience while we handle the details.

Let’s Create Your Dream Wedding Together

Wedding shows are a fantastic way to kickstart your planning journey, but having an experienced team like Elegant Affairs by your side makes all the difference. With over 19 years of wedding planning expertise in Seattle and Tacoma, we’re here to ensure your big day is everything you’ve dreamed of—and more.

Ready to dive into wedding planning? Let’s chat! Book a complimentary consultation today, and let’s start bringing your vision to life.


Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 19 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

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2024 Year in Review

January 2, 2025 Lori Losee

As we wrap up another incredible year, our hearts are brimming with gratitude for the love, support, and unforgettable memories we’ve shared in 2024. This year has been nothing short of magical, filled with breathtaking weddings, countless joyful moments, and incredible collaborations with our cherished clients and vendor partners.

Every wedding we’ve had the honor of planning and executing has been a testament to the love stories that inspire us daily. From intimate ceremonies nestled in the heart of the Pacific Northwest to grand celebrations that dazzled under twinkling lights, 2024 was a year to remember.

To Our Clients: Thank You for Trusting Us with Your Love Stories

To our amazing couples: Thank you for inviting us into one of the most special seasons of your lives. Your trust, creativity, and love for one another have fueled our passion and reminded us why we do what we do. It’s been a joy to see your dreams come to life—from the first consultation to the final send-off.

We’ve celebrated with you during golden-hour ceremonies, danced alongside you at vibrant receptions, and teared up during heartfelt vows and toasts. Each wedding has left a unique mark on our hearts, and we are so honored to have been a part of your journey.

As we reflect on this past year, we’re reminded of the countless smiles, heartfelt moments, and cherished memories we helped create. Your kind words, glowing reviews, and heartfelt testimonials have meant the world to us, and we’re endlessly thankful for the opportunity to be part of your day.

To Our Vendor Partners: You’re the Dream Team Behind the Magic

To our incredible vendor partners: Thank you for your dedication, creativity, and unwavering support. From florists and photographers to caterers, DJs, and venues, you are the backbone of every wedding we plan. Your talent and expertise elevate every event, and it’s always a pleasure collaborating with you to create extraordinary celebrations.

We are in awe of the stunning floral arrangements, the mouthwatering menus, the beautiful venues, and the jaw-dropping decor that brought our couples’ visions to life. Your commitment to excellence and willingness to go above and beyond are what make these weddings so unforgettable.

Whether it was working together to create seamless timelines or brainstorming creative solutions for last-minute challenges, your partnership has been invaluable. We can’t wait to team up with you again in 2025 to continue creating magic for our clients.

2024 Highlights: Weddings We’ll Never Forget

Looking back on 2024, we’re filled with pride at the beauty and joy of the weddings we were honored to plan. Some highlights include:

  • A stunning winter wedding featuring a cozy candlelit reception and a magical snowfall that felt straight out of a fairytale.

  • A vibrant summer celebration that incorporated bold florals, a live band, and a breathtaking sunset ceremony.

  • A heartfelt autumn wedding with moody, rich color palettes and a reception under a canopy of twinkling lights.

Every couple brought their own unique style and personality to their wedding day, and it was such a joy to see those visions come to life.

Looking Ahead to 2025: Let’s Create Something Extraordinary

As we turn the page to 2025, we’re filled with excitement for what’s to come. We’ve already started planning some incredible weddings and are thrilled about the trends and creative ideas we’ll be incorporating into next year’s celebrations.

If you’re planning your 2025 wedding and haven’t booked your planner yet, now is the time! While our calendar is filling quickly, we do have a few openings left, and we’d love to help you bring your vision to life. Whether you’re dreaming of an intimate gathering or a grand celebration, we’re here to ensure your day is as seamless and joyful as possible.

A Final Thank You

To our clients, vendor partners, and everyone who supported us in 2024: Thank you for making this year truly unforgettable. Your trust, collaboration, and love have been the foundation of everything we’ve accomplished.

Here’s to a new year filled with love, creativity, and even more magical moments. Let’s make 2025 the best one yet! Cheers to the future, and we can’t wait to celebrate with you.

With gratitude,
The Elegant Affairs Team


Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 19 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

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