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Breaking Down Vendor Contracts: What You Need to Know Before Signing

January 23, 2025 Lori Losee

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As you begin your wedding planning journey, you probably started researching wedding vendors to help bring your vision to life. You begin to look for the perfect wedding venue, photographer, florist, caterer and entertainment to keep your guests dancing all night. But, as you begin to narrow down and make your selections, you need to make the decision and sign the contract. Fact of the matter is, contracts are essential for both parties. Vendors have contracts to ensure that clients are aware of the exact services and experience they will receive on their wedding day. It is a written agreement between both the vendor and the client that both parties will abide by. Contracts can seem daunting and unexpected as you begin this journey. Some may have many different sections and others may just down right surprise you. Let’s take a closer look at what contracts include and what you need to know before you sign on the dotted line. 

The Basics
Contracts are a part of most large business transactions. As you search for your vendors, ensure that you select vendors with contracts. Yes, an under the table arrangement may seem like a great idea, but when it comes down to the day of, you want to clearly know what to expect and the quality that will be delivered. A contract is a written agreement between you and your vendors. The contract will describe the service, terms of payment, and all the details in between. Contracts are binding, and there will be fine lines if you need to break your agreement. Vendors and clients should refer to the contract to ensure there are no misunderstandings throughout the planning process or the day of. The basics of a contract will always include the following: 

  • Your and your partner’s name 

  • The vendor’s name and address 

  • Services will be (or should be) clearly named

  • Cost of services and terms of payment to include: if there is a deposit, when payments are due and in what increments 

  • Both parties acknowledge their agreement and sign 

A good contract will include the vendor’s signature and both clients. Always ask for a copy if one is not given to you and review the contract before you sign. 

Take Your Time: The wedding planning process can often feel stressful, especially if you are running on a shorter time frame. But, no matter what the time frame, many couples are just ready to sign on the dotted line to select their vendors quickly. On the contrary, it is so important to ask for a sample contract, or if you’re reading to sign, to take your copy home to review. You will want to read it with your partner and/or a trusted individual such as your wedding planner or coordinator. You will want to read it several times to ensure you have an understanding on what is outlined. 

Once you read the contract through a few times, ask your questions. Do not be afraid to ask clarifying questions to the vendor. You will want to ensure that all of your questions are answered and that if there aren’t specific details answered in the contract it is discussed and added. While some vendors aren’t willing to adjust their contracts, for instance max occupancy may be one of those details that cannot be adjusted due to fire codes, there may be other areas that can be adjusted such as rehearsal times or storing decor overnight. Some vendors are willing to make changes, and if you don’t ask you won’t know – so you might as well ask away! At the end of the day, do not feel like you have to sign right away. This is a legally binding document and taking the time to make a clear decision is important. 

What to Look For: Most wedding contracts have explicit details with the exact services that you will receive leading up to, or just on the day of. It is important to review all the details so you are fully aware of what is to be expected on the day of your wedding. There are a few key things you will need to locate on your vendor contract. 

Payments Terms: Look for this as it will outline what your payments will be and when they will be due. Due dates with any wedding contract are typical, and be sure that the contract outlines when and how the payments can be made. Is there an online portal? Can you pay using credit card or is it cash only? What are the down payments to secure the date? And, if there is a need to cancel, what are the cancellation policies and is refundable or non-refundable. It is typical that most contracts will say the security deposit, or the first payment is non-refundable. 

Rental Hours: Whether you have a photographer or are looking to book your venue, there are service or rental hours. You will want to see what time the vendors will arrive, or what time you will be able to get into your venue. Vendors all have specific times, and many outline the exact hours they will be present on your wedding day. 

Cancellation Clauses: Of course I always want to think that weddings will go off without something going wrong, but there are things that can and have happened. For instance, think about all the weddings that were cancelled or postponed due to COVID-19. There will alway, or should always, be an “Act of God” or Cancellation Clause in your wedding contract. This covers you and the vendor throughout the wedding planning process. Sometimes, just changing the date can be better than cancelling. You may just have to pay an additional fee to change the date, but it is better than losing a portion of your budget. Always ask the vendor what is the policy and procedure if a date needs to be changed and what is the policy for when an “Act of God” happens. This is something that happens that is out of the control of either party. When situations like this occur, you may be able to get a refund, credits or postpone for a later date. 

Included Rentals: Venue and catering contracts will probably be your most extensive. You will need to ask what is included when signing. For example, with the venue, what kind of furniture and how many of each are included? Keep in mind that some venues will offer tables and chairs, while others will not. In addition, catering always ask about china and linen. Some companies will not have inclusive packages, while others will have all sorts of selections. Ensure that you are asking all of the questions so you know what rentals will be waiting for you on the day of. 

Damage Clauses: Many vendors will have clauses regarding damages. Look for this clause in your contract and if there are not details on damages or what happens if something is damaged during your wedding, ask. 

Insurance: This is always a scary part of the contract. Many clients are shocked that insurance is required by some vendors. Many venues require your vendors, such as your caterer and DJ or entertainment, to have insurance, and your venue will most likely require you to obtain liability insurance for a set amount. Don’t fear, you can call your insurance company and obtain an affordable rate, but if it’s listed in the contract, be sure you hire insured vendors and obtain your insurance, too. 


At the end of the day, it’s better to take your time and to ask your questions before signing. Once you’re in a contract with a vendor it is binding. And be sure to do your research. Many couples who are engaged, visit their first wedding show and book quickly. But, stop and do your research and meet with different vendors. You do not have to book right away and it’s best to let your decisions sit for a little bit. You never want to regret a vendor booking. Do your research, take your time, read and read it again, and ask trusted individuals for your support. Once the contract is signed, it’s time to get on with the planning and start putting your wedding day vision together! And just remember, contracts ensure that you have the best wedding day!


Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 19 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

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The Benefits of Hiring a Professional Wedding Planner in 2025

January 16, 2025 Lori Losee

Wedding planning, from your engagement to the moment you say “I Do” is a careful and cherished process. There are so many decisions and details that go into each wedding day and with modern technology there are so many different weddings to add to your vision board. But behind most of the weddings we see as we scroll through social media, is a hard working team of wedding professionals that enable the couple to have their vision come to life. There are so many arguments that we can go over to explain the reasons why hiring a wedding planner. We could probably sit all day discussing this, as we know the value of having a wedding professional’s support – I mean we live it and breathe it on a daily basis! So, we’ve narrowed down our top benefits of hiring a wedding planning professional. 

#01: Save Time & Money 
You’re probably thinking, wait – I have to spend money to hire a wedding planner – how are we actually saving money? Wedding planners can often save their couples money. They are tied to a network of wedding professionals and preferred vendors. They have know vendors that can fit your budget, or may even be able to negotiate some of the costs on your behalf. They are also the little bug in your ear that remind you constantly to stay within your budget. Wedding planners will help you find cost-efficient solutions and ensure that you stay within your budget. Not only do wedding planners save you money, but they handle so many situations that would normally consume your time. Whether they communicate with vendors, handle walk-throughs, find quotes, they coordinate moments behind the scenes, which in turn free up your time. 

#02: Expert Guidance
Wedding planners are experts in the wedding industry. They are professionals in and beyond the local area. Many have years of experience, be sure to ask for their portfolio and client testimonies during your initial consults! But, they have been through thick and thin, know what professionals to work with and stay clear of. They can provide insight on how to make your wedding come to life, and how to fit it all within your budget. They offer a level of creativity as well as an effective guide through the whole process. 

#03: Vendor Meetings and Selections 
Selecting vendors that are right for your vision, as well as your budget, can be the most difficult part of the process. Wedding planners will help you meet and select vendors that will help make your wedding a success. Trust me, they know who and who not to work with. They will ensure that you are working with vendors that fit within your budget, are qualified professionals, and are able to support your wedding vision. Not only do wedding planners support you with selecting vendors, they can be in charge of all communications leading up to your wedding. They finalize plans, attend vendor planning meetings, ensure that everyone is aware of the timeline for the day, and that the gap for miscommunications are closed. 

#04: Emergency Planning
Emergencies and problems can arise. As much as we hate to see them happen, they do happen, life happens after all. Wedding planners can support any problems that occur along the wedding planning road and help navigate these tricky situations that may arise on your wedding day with grace. Many times, we handle these emergencies so quickly and effectively that the couple are blissfully unaware that anything occurred until after the wedding day.

#05: Overall Experience Enhancement 
One of the best reasons to hire a wedding planner is they enhance your overall experience and your guests. You and your partner are a priority and so are your guests’ comfort and overall experience. We support and field any questions your guests may have and we work to create a welcoming environment. You’ve got a question? We will find an answer. Our goal is for everyone to feel comfortable so the focus can be on celebrating you and your partners’ love! 

#06: Keeping Things on Time
Timelines are so important on your wedding day! We create timelines from the start to finish, and we mean when the doors close! A wedding planner has the knowledge and expertise to create a timeline that will ensure your wedding day goes according to plan. This includes what time vendors will arrive, when your bridesmaids need to be at hair and makeup, down to how long your dad will have to toast. Wedding planners keep your wedding day running like a smooth working machine. 

#07: Stress Free Day 
On your wedding day, we want you and your partner to enjoy your special day without stress. All logistics and problem-solving should be left to us, the professionals. Wedding planners coordinate the events, ensure that everything runs smoothly, handle scheduling, and deal with anything that may go wrong during the event. Our team always tells our couples that we want them to have a stress-free day where they can focus on enjoying their celebration without any worry. If there is any sole benefit for hiring a wedding planner, this would be it – to ensure that you don’t spend your day worrying. We want your day to be enjoyable and stress-free. 


If you’re on the fence about hiring a wedding planner for your 2025 wedding, we beg you to lean towards hiring someone. There are so many benefits, even beyond this list. Wedding planners handle so many situations behind the scenes to ensure that you can truly enjoy your wedding day. We ensure that everything runs well, stays within your budget, help you select vendors that fit your needs and your wants, and create a stress-free day in which you can truly just enjoy. There are countless benefits to hiring a wedding professional, so if you’re just embarking on this journey – please schedule a consultation today. 


Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 19 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

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How to Successfully Navigate Wedding Shows: Insider Tips from Your Wedding Planning Pros

January 9, 2025 Lori Losee
How to successfully navigate a wedding show.

Attending a wedding show is like stepping into a wonderland of wedding inspiration. It’s exciting, overwhelming, and filled with endless possibilities for your big day. But how do you make the most of it without getting lost in the sea of tulle and vendor booths? As experienced wedding planners, we’re here to guide you through successfully navigating wedding shows so you leave inspired, informed, and on track to create the wedding of your dreams.

Let’s dive into our expert tips on how to prepare, what to look for, and how to make wedding shows work for you!

Know What You Want Before You Go

Wedding shows are brimming with options, from florists to photographers and everything in between. To make the most of your time:

  • Define Your Priorities: Know which aspects of your wedding you need to focus on. Are you looking for a caterer, venue, or DJ? Having a clear vision helps you stay on track.

  • Create a Vision Board: Whether it’s on Pinterest or a physical board, compile images and ideas to bring with you. Vendors love seeing your style so they can tailor their pitches to your aesthetic.

  • Set Your Budget: Be prepared to discuss pricing with vendors. Knowing your limits ensures you’re connecting with vendors within your range.

Pre-Register and Plan Your Day

Wedding shows can get crowded, and the best booths are often the busiest. To maximize your experience:

  • Pre-Register Online: Many shows offer discounts or incentives for early registration. Plus, it saves you time at check-in.

  • Research the Vendor List: Check the show’s website to see which vendors will be there. Highlight the ones you want to visit and prioritize those booths.

  • Plan Your Timing: Arrive early to beat the crowds and have more one-on-one time with vendors. If possible, plan to stay for the entire event to take in everything.

Dress Comfortably and Bring Essentials

Wedding shows often mean walking, standing, and carrying materials. Be prepared with:

  • Comfortable Shoes: Trust us—heels are not your friend here.

  • A Tote Bag or Backpack: Vendors will shower you with brochures, samples, and swag. A sturdy bag helps you keep it all organized.

  • Notebook and Pen: Take notes on vendors you loved, ideas that sparked your interest, and questions you have.

  • Pre-Printed Labels: Save time filling out forms by bringing labels with your name, wedding date, and contact info. Vendors will love you for it!

Ask the Right Questions

You’re meeting potential vendors who could make or break your big day. Don’t shy away from asking detailed questions:

  • What’s your availability for our wedding date?

  • What’s your experience with our chosen venue or wedding style?

  • Do you offer customizable packages?

  • Can we see examples of your work or client testimonials?

  • What’s your deposit policy, and when is the final payment due?

Take Advantage of Discounts and Promotions

Many vendors offer exclusive discounts for couples who book at the wedding show. Be prepared to:

  • Bring Your Calendar: If you’re ready to book, having your availability on hand is essential.

  • Ask About Show Specials: Vendors often offer discounts, freebies, or upgrades for signing contracts at the event.

  • Negotiate Smartly: If you love a vendor but need time to think, ask if they’ll honor the discount for a short period after the show.

Stay Organized Post-Show

After collecting stacks of brochures and business cards, you’ll need a system to sort through everything:

  • Create Categories: Divide materials into categories like “Must-Have,” “Maybe,” and “Not for Us.”

  • Follow Up Quickly: Vendors meet hundreds of couples at shows, so reach out soon to remind them who you are and ask any follow-up questions.

  • Schedule Consultations: Narrow your list and set up meetings with your top vendors to discuss your needs in detail.

Keep an Open Mind

While it’s great to have a plan, some of the best ideas come when you least expect them:

  • Explore New Trends: Wedding shows are the perfect place to discover unique ideas, from interactive photo booths to cutting-edge decor.

  • Talk to Vendors Outside Your List: You may fall in love with a vendor or service you hadn’t considered.

  • Engage with Fellow Couples: Chatting with other couples can give you fresh ideas and insights.

8. Don’t Forget to Have Fun

Wedding planning can be stressful, but wedding shows are meant to be an enjoyable part of the journey. Take time to:

  • Sample the Food: Many caterers offer delicious samples. Enjoy the perks of being a bride or groom-to-be!

  • Snap Photos: Document your favorite setups, floral arrangements, or unique details for future reference.

  • Soak in the Inspiration: From runway shows to stunning decor displays, let yourself be inspired.

Why Hiring a Wedding Planner Makes Wedding Shows Even Better

Here’s a little secret: having a wedding planner by your side makes navigating wedding shows a breeze. As professionals, we know how to:

  • Guide You to the Right Vendors: Based on your style and budget, we’ll steer you toward vendors that fit your needs.

  • Ask the Hard Questions: We know what to look for and what red flags to avoid.

  • Save You Time and Stress: With our expertise, you can focus on enjoying the experience while we handle the details.

Let’s Create Your Dream Wedding Together

Wedding shows are a fantastic way to kickstart your planning journey, but having an experienced team like Elegant Affairs by your side makes all the difference. With over 19 years of wedding planning expertise in Seattle and Tacoma, we’re here to ensure your big day is everything you’ve dreamed of—and more.

Ready to dive into wedding planning? Let’s chat! Book a complimentary consultation today, and let’s start bringing your vision to life.


Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 19 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

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