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Everything You Need to Know About Wedding Signage (and Why It Matters!) (Copy)

August 7, 2025 Lori Losee

When you think about wedding details that leave a lasting impression, you might picture the dress, the florals, or the first dance. But there’s one detail that plays a big role in tying your entire wedding experience together—and often gets overlooked – wedding signage.

Wedding signs do more than just guide your guests from point A to point B. They help tell your love story, reinforce your wedding theme, and add personality to every space. From the welcome sign to the bar menu to creative Instagram-worthy moments, signage is a blend of function and style you absolutely do not want to ignore.

Whether you’re in the early stages of planning or looking for final details to personalize your big day, here’s everything you need to know about wedding signage—and why it matters.

WHY DOES SIGNAGE MATTER?

Wedding signage isn’t just “pretty paper.” It plays a vital role in creating a seamless guest experience. Here’s why it’s so important:

IT SETS THE TONE. Your welcome sign is often the first thing guests see. It can immediately convey your style—romantic, modern, rustic, whimsical, or glam.

IT PROVIDES DIRECTION. You don’t want lost guests. Or you don’t want your guests to feel lost. From ceremony seating to the bar, signage helps guests navigate the day without confusion or constant questions.

IT ADDS PERSONALITY. Custom signs let your sense of humor, love story, or shared interests shine through.

IT ELEVATES YOUR DECOR. With the right design, signage becomes a decorative element that pulls your entire aesthetic together.

In simple terms, signage is almost like your wedding’s “branding”. It is a visual thread that carries your guests from one moment to the next. 

LET’S BREAK DOWN THE SIGNAGE YOU’LL ACTUALLY NEED

There are endless ways to incorporate signage into your wedding, but here are the most common—and useful—types you’ll want to consider.

There are endless ways to incorporate signage into your wedding, but here are the most common—and useful—types you’ll want to consider.

01: THE WELCOME SIGN 

This is the first impression. Usually displayed at the entrance to your ceremony or venue, a welcome sign often includes your names, wedding date, and a warm greeting. You can mount it on an easel or hang it with floral accents for a beautiful statement piece. 

02: CEREMONY SIGNS 

Help direct your guests while they wait for your arrival. 

  • Explain the seating – is it pick a seat, not a side? Or open seating? 

  • Program boards with your wedding party names is a great option for saving on printed paper programs. 

  • Reserved seating signage for family rows 

03: UNPLUGGED CEREMONY SIGN

If you’d like guests to be present (and not taking photos during your ceremony), kindly let them know with an “Unplugged Ceremony” sign.

Example:
“Welcome to our unplugged ceremony. Please turn off your devices and be fully present with us. Thank you!”

04: SEATING CHART/ESCORT CARD DISPLAY 

Whether it’s a large printed board, a mirror with calligraphy, or a creative installation (like hanging tags or champagne escort walls), this is one of the most functional and fun signage opportunities.

05: TABLE NUMBERS AND PLACE CARDS

These small signs help guests find their seats and are a great place to add personality or theme-related elements—like naming tables after favorite travel destinations, movies, or shared hobbies.

06: BAR AND DRINK SIGNS 

Let your guests know what’s on the menu with a custom bar sign. You can list wine, beer, and cocktails—or feature a signature drink named after your pet, favorite vacation, or inside joke.

Example:
“The Lucy – Spicy Margarita (because she’s a little extra)”

07: MENU SIGNAGE 

If you're doing a buffet or food stations, signage is essential to guide guests (and accommodate allergies or preferences). Even with plated meals, a menu board or printed menus at each seat can add a thoughtful touch.

08: HASHTAG OR PHOTO BOOTH SIGN 

Encourage guests to share photos with a custom hashtag or tag your wedding account. If you have a photo booth or selfie station, a sign with instructions makes it easy for everyone to join in.

09: FAVORS AND GUESTBOOK SIGNS

Don't let guests forget to sign your guestbook or grab a favor! A well-placed sign will do the trick.

10: DIRECTIONAL SIGNS 

Especially helpful for outdoor or multi-location venues. Use arrows or markers to guide guests to the ceremony, cocktail hour, reception, restrooms, or parking. 

WEDDING SIGNAGE TIPS

Your signage should match your wedding theme. It should compliment your overall wedding aesthetic. Consider your fonts, colors, materials, and layout. You’ll want to be consistent with your fonts and colors, because just like a brand – it should use similar elements across all signs. This creates a seamless, polished look from start to finish. Don’t be afraid to use a variety of materials to add texture and dimension. We love mixing wood, acrylic, and even mirrors!  At the end of the day, don’t over do it. Yes, signs are helpful, but don’t add to many. It can clutter the space or become overwhelming. Be strategic in your signage execution. 

Wedding signage is more than a checklist item—it’s an opportunity to enhance your guest experience, express your personality, and elevate your wedding décor. From the moment guests arrive to the final farewell, thoughtful signs can guide, delight, and inspire.

So whether you're dreaming of minimalist acrylics, rustic wood boards, or playful neon, let your signage do more than just direct—let it speak your love language.


Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Seattle Wedding Planner with over 19 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

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The Ultimate Wedding Planning Timeline: What to Do and When

July 31, 2025 Lori Losee

Did you just say “YES!”? Planning your wedding should be one of the most exciting times in your life. After all, you are about to marry the love of your life! But, let’s be honest – sometimes the excitement can wear away quickly and the overwhelming feelings can start to kick in. You may be in the midst of planning or just beginning the journey, but it is vital to have a clear timeline to ease the stress. So, whether you’ve already dug deep into Pinterest boards, or are just starting out – here is your month-by-month guide to planning your ultimate wedding, with what to do and when. 

12 + Months Before the Wedding: Lay the Foundation for your wedding day

  • Stop and enjoy your engagement. Be sure to celebrate your engagement and share the happy news with your family and friends

  • Sit down with your partner and any financial contributors (ex. Parents, grandparents etc.) and determine who is contributing, what amount, and set guidelines for your budget

  • Draft a guest list to estimate the size and venue requirements 

  • Hire a wedding planner (we’d love to support you with your journey – wink, wink!)

  • Choose a wedding season

  • Choose a wedding date 

  • Book your venue (ceremony and reception) 

10-12 Months Before: Get your Vendors Booked

  • Book your key vendors: photographer, videographer, band/DJ, caterer

  • Choose your wedding party and don’t forget to think of a fun and creative way to ask them!

  • Create a wedding website to send out to your guest list

  • Explore ideas about a theme or color palette 

  • Start collecting your guests’ addresses, we recommend keeping them on a spreadsheet

  • Start wedding dress shopping - we recommend starting this early, to allow time for alterations and delivery

  • Meet and greet officiants and book/confirm an officiant 

8-10 Months Before: It’s Time to Bring your Vision to Life

  • Explore florists in the area and book your florist

  • Have some fun deciding on your desserts! Select and choose your dessert options, such as a dessert bar or cake

  • Visit a local decorator or rental company 

  • Reserve your hotel blocks for out-of-town guests

  • Schedule engagement photos 

  • Register for gifts and add links to your wedding website

  • Finalize your wedding website information prior to save the dates

  • Create your save the dates – leave time to deliver

6-8 Months Before: Plan and Prep

  • Send your save the dates 

  • Send out links or sample ideas to your wedding party for attire, or plan shopping trips with your wedding party to shop for bridesmaid dresses and suits

  • Book transportation 

  • Plan the honeymoon (if applicable) 

  • Order and confirm your rentals including tables, chairs, linens and misc. decor 

4-5 Months Before: Get into all the Details 

  • Select and choose your wedding rings - don’t forget to order! 

  • Finalize the menu with your caterer, to include cocktail hour and the reception 

  • Book your hair and makeup artists and schedule a trial run

  • Begin writing your vows and meet with your officiant

  • Plan your ceremony and reception details, including your timeline 

2-3 Months Before: Tie Up Loose Ends

  • Mail out your invites - a good rule of thumb is 6-8 weeks before 

  • Schedule your dress fittings to ensure your dress is ready 

  • Confirm your vendor details, payments, and timelines 

  • Create a wedding day schedule and timeline 

  • Purchase wedding party gifts (if applicable) 

1-2 Weeks Before: Final Touches

  • Give final numbers and headcounts to the vendors

  • Pack for honeymoon and day of wedding 

  • Pick up and prep wedding attire, to include all accessories

  • Prepare an emergency kit, unless your wedding planner or day of coordinator has one

  • Distribute day of timeline draft to wedding party and all vendors

The Day Before

  • Attend or host the rehearsal and dinner 

  • Pack your bag for the next day 

  • Drink lots of water and eat well-balanced meals

  • Get a good night of rest 

The Big Day 

  • Relax and enjoy

  • Trust your team and let the magic happen

  • Say ‘I do to the love of your life’

Wedding planning is a journey, and like any journey, it’s best taken one step at a time. Stick to this timeline, stay flexible, and remember—this day is about you and your partner. Everything else is just icing on the wedding cake. Enjoy the wedding planning process - you’ve got this!


Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 19 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

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How to Design a Sweetheart Table You’ll Be Obsessed With

July 24, 2025 Lori Losee

In a room full of love, laughter, and celebration, your sweetheart table is like your private island. It’s the one spot just for the two of you on your wedding day. While it may seem like a simple seating decision, your sweetheart table is more than just a place to eat. It’s a focal point of your reception, a photo backdrop, and a beautiful way to showcase your style as a couple.

Whether you're going for something romantic and elegant, modern and minimal, or bold and whimsical, your sweetheart table is your chance to design something truly personal. Here's everything you need to know to create a sweetheart table you’ll be completely obsessed with!

WHAT IS A SWEETHEART TABLE? 

Often, we have couples who are weary against the sweetheart table. They don’t want to be “isolated” and would rather be with their guests. BUT, it’s purpose truly is to create an intimate table just for you and your partner, to sit together, and enjoy a pocket of peace in your reception. It is traditionally placed in a central spot with a direct view of the dance floor and rest of the room. It is different from a head table, which often includes the bridal party, a sweetheart table gives the couple a bit more privacy while still being front and center. It’s not only a great way to enjoy a few quiet moments together, but also an incredible design opportunity. 

WHY YOU SHOULD CONSIDER A SWEETHEART TABLE?

Okay – let us pitch our top reasons why you SHOULD opt for a sweetheart table. We totally understand why couples prefer to sit with their wedding party or families, but here are our top reasons why you need to go the sweetheart table route: 

  • Intimacy: The wedding day is CRAZY busy. It can go by in a flash. The sweetheart table gives you and your partner a few precious moments alone in the middle of a very social, and busy day. 

  • Photography: It is the perfect setup for toasts, first bites, and romantic portraits. 

  • Design Freedom: You’re not trying to coordinate with multiple people’s place settings or floral needs – so you can go all out with your personal style. 

  • Logistics - It can simplify seating arrangements, especially if you  have a large or blended bridal party. 

WHERE TO PLACE YOUR SWEETHEART TABLE 

Placement is key for both function and aesthetics. Your sweetheart table should be: 

  • Visible: to your guests – so they know where to direct their totasts and camera phones! 

  • Centered: or elevated if possible, especially in a ballroom or tented reception 

  • Backdropped: by something photo - friendly – like a floral installation, draping, greenery wall, or even just a beautiful view. 

Be sure to make space in front of your table for guests to approach, give hugs, or snap photos without blocking other tables. 

ELEMENTS OF AN EYE-CATCHING SWEETHEART TABLE 

Designing your sweetheart table is all about the details. Here is the breakdown of the elements that will make yours unforgettable: 

The Table Itself
Your table can be as grand or as simple as you like. A few ideas: 

  • Vintage sweetheart tables can have ornate legs or reclaimed wood 

  • Modern acrylic or mirrored tables for a clean, sophisticated look 

  • Rustic farm tables for boho or countryside vibes

  • Round or half-moon shapes to stand out from the guest tables

Ensure that the scale of the table fits the space and doesn’t overwhelm (or get lost in) your reception layout. 

STATEMENT CHAIRS OR LOVE SEATS 

Ditch the banquet chairs and opt for something that elevates your seating. We love the idea of velvet armchairs in your wedding color. Or opt for a cozy tufted loveseat or settee. If you're a fan of clean lines, check with your rental company for Gold Chiavari or acrylic ghost chairs to heighten a glam or modern wedding. Your chairs SHOULD be comfortable and also match your wedding theme. 

LINENS AND RUNNERS 

Luxurious table linens can instantly transform your sweetheart table. Options to consider are: 

  • Sequined overlay for sparkle

  • Soft velvet for texture 

  • Gauze or chiffon runners for a romantic feel 

  • Custom embroidery (like your initials or wedding date)

For an elevated look, let your linen pool to the floor. This creates a dramatic, romantic effect – perfect for pictures!

FLORAL AND GREENERY DECOR

One of the most important visual elements of your sweetheart table is the floral arrangement. And, this is an opportunity to reuse and repurpose floral arrangements from your wedding ceremony! We love to see a cascading garland of greenery and blooms that flow over the front. Or a floral arch or semi-circle behind the table. You can use low centerpieces, paired with candles for a romantic look. Don’t forget to repurpose ceremony florals such as your archway or aisle flowers to save on cost without compromising style. 

LIGHTING

The right lighting adds ambiance and enhances your sweetheart table photos. You can opt to add a spotlight or pin lighting to make your table stand out during the reception. We love the idea of fairy lights, hanging Edison bulbs, or votive candles for a warm glow. Consider a neon sign behind the table with your name, initials, or a fun phrase. 

PERSONALIZED TOUCHES

This is your table, so make it yours! Be sure to add your personality with: 

  • Custom name signs or “Mr. & Mrs.” Signage 

  • Champagne flutes with your initials 

  • A framed loved letter or your vows

  • Photos of your relationships or family mementos

  • Monogrammed napkins or menus. 

If you are planning to write letters to each other before the ceremony, display them in a sealed envelope on the sweetheart table as a symbolic touch. 

Whatever you do, make it practical. While beauty is the goal, don’t forget about functionality. Ensure there is space and enough leg room under the table. You want to avoid overly large centerpieces that not only block your view, but your guests' view of you. Have a clear space for your dinner plates, glasses, and silverware, and ensure that your food is plated and STAYS until you’re ready for it to be cleared. 

Your sweetheart table is more than just a place to sit—it’s a moment to reflect, connect, and be fully present with your partner on your biggest day. From lush florals to statement chairs and custom signage, there are countless ways to make it feel special.

Whether your wedding is boho and breezy or elegant and glamorous, designing a sweetheart table that reflects your personalities and love story is one more way to make your celebration deeply personal—and absolutely stunning.

So go ahead, create a space you'll be obsessed with. After all, you only get one wedding dinner as newlyweds—make it magical.


Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 19 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.

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