Lori is the best kind of friend you want to meet. Her selfless nature will blow you away and her professionalism takes so much weight off of the couple's shoulders.
I am so so happy that she was next to us in those last few weeks - I only wish it could have been for longer!”
~Cass + Will | The Farm Kitchen | Poulsbo, WA

Tacoma/Seattle Wedding Planners Lori and Tiphany posed together.

Meet the Magic Makers Behind Elegant Affairs

Planning weddings is our profession.
Creating experiences you’ll never forget? That’s our passion.

Hi, I’m Lori Losee—founder, lead planner, detail-obsessed creative, timeline whisperer, and your built-in calm on even the busiest wedding days.

I started Elegant Affairs in 2005 after planning my own wedding and realizing I had a true gift (and deep love) for turning visions into seamless, joy-filled celebrations. Nearly two decades later, I’ve had the privilege of planning hundreds of weddings—from luxury vineyard weekends to vibrant Hindu-Southern fusion celebrations and intimate garden soirées. No two are ever alike, and that’s exactly how we like it.

Because at Elegant Affairs, our goal is always the same:
to make your day as stress-free, stylish, and joy-filled as possible.

Our Why

Weddings aren’t just about florals and floor plans. They’re about people—your story, your culture, your family, and the beautiful moments that bring it all together.

We’re here to make sure those moments unfold exactly as they should, with every detail handled and every emotion fully felt. So you can be present, joyful, and completely in the moment from start to finish.

Let’s make magic together. ✨

A Few Things to Know About Elegant Affairs

🥂 We’ve planned over 300 weddings (and counting!)
📍 Proudly serving Seattle, Tacoma, and the Pacific Northwest— and wherever love takes us
💖 Every event is personalized, planned with heart, and executed with excellence
🌿 We are the calm in your storm, the voice in your corner, and the reason everything runs so smoothly

253.279.6485
info@elegantaffairswa.com

Owner/Senior Planner Lori Losee

Tacoma Wedding Planner Lori posing.

 Elegant Affairs was founded in 2005 by Lori Losee, whose love for event planning began long before her first wedding.

While attending Washington State University, Lori discovered her passion for bringing people together as a proud member of Alpha Phi, where she planned countless charity and social events. After graduating with a degree in Communications and Journalism, she spent four years in the newspaper industry — sharpening her organizational skills and eye for storytelling.

Then, after planning her own wedding to her college sweetheart in 2003, Lori had an aha moment: her heart belonged in the wedding world. Within two years, Elegant Affairs was born — blending her business savvy, creativity, and calm-under-pressure personality into a career she truly loves.

Today, Lori is not only a seasoned planner but also a proud mom to two sons, Grant and Jackson. Her mix of professionalism, creativity, and genuine care has earned her a reputation for producing weddings that are as flawless and stylish as they are heartfelt and memorable.

When couples work with Lori, they get more than a planner — they gain a calm, confident partner who makes the journey joyful from start to finish.

A Few Fun Facts About Lori

💫 1988 Hula Hoop Champion at the Puyallup Fair (yes, it’s a thing — and she’s still got it!)
🎢 Disneyland enthusiast to an almost comical degree — but still waiting for her first trip to Disney World
Never had a sip of coffee… even while living in the land of Starbucks

Senior Planner Tiphany Thomas

Tacoma Wedding Planner Tiphany posing.

Hi, I’m Tiphany Thomas! I joined the Elegant Affairs team during the start of COVID (what a time to dive in, right?) and have loved every moment since. I began as an assistant, stepped into the Associate Planner role in 2021, and proudly became a Senior Planner in 2024.

Before joining EA, I worked as a corporate event planner for a large tech company — but weddings completely stole my heart. I love that this work combines my passion for organization and logistics with the personal touch and emotional magic that make weddings so special.

There’s nothing better than seeing a couple’s vision come to life on their big day — those “this is really happening!” moments are what I live for.

Fun Facts About Me

🏊‍♀️ I was a competitive swimmer for 15 years, won State for my high school team, and still hold a record there.
📺 My comfort show is Gilmore Girls (I rewatch it every fall!) and yes — I am firmly Team Logan.
📚 I’m an avid reader with a goal of 100 books a year. I love psychological thrillers but can’t resist a great rom-com or historical fiction.

see our work
view our packages

We offer a no obligation consultation so we can better understand your wedding vision and planning needs!

let's chat about your wedding

With COVID-19 throwing a wrench into the wedding process we are here to give you helpful tips and if you should continue as planned or postpone.

Did you just get engaged and have no idea how to get started or where to go for help, we some some helpful ideas to navigate the wedding planning process.

We are chatting with several wedding venues around the Greater Seattle area about their venue and advice for couples when selecting their perfect venue.

We are chatting with Shane from Oak + Fig Floral about all things flowers from how to select the perfect florist, how to design you wedding with flowers to trends and how COVID-19 is impacting floral world.

We talk with Seattle's I Do Bridal Shop owner a Robin Garrison about finding the perfect wedding dress for you.

What is a wedding party and what are their roles and do I even need to have one.