Your wedding day is a whirlwind of emotions, moments, and memories. It's a day you've meticulously planned, eagerly anticipated, and dreamed about. But once it arrives, it goes by in the blink of an eye. At Elegant Affairs, we’ve seen it all and helped countless couples navigate this special day. Here’s our best wedding day advice to ensure you savor every precious moment and make it as seamless and joyful as possible.
Stop and Take in the Moment
One of the most important pieces of advice we can give is to simply stop and take in the moment. Your wedding day will fly by faster than you can imagine. From the moment you wake up to the final dance, it will feel like a beautiful blur of emotions and events. Here’s how you can ensure you soak it all in:
Mindful Moments: Plan a few moments throughout the day to pause and breathe. Look around, take in the sights, sounds, and feelings. Whether it's during your makeup session, right before you walk down the aisle, or during a quiet moment with your partner, these pauses will help you remember the day vividly.
First Look: Consider having a first look before the ceremony. It’s an intimate moment where you can connect with your partner without the eyes of all your guests on you. It's a perfect opportunity to ground yourself and appreciate the significance of the day.
Guest Interactions: Make sure to spend a few minutes with each guest, thanking them for being part of your special day. This not only makes your guests feel appreciated but also gives you a chance to create more personal memories.
Pre-Wedding Evening Tips
The night before your wedding is crucial. It sets the tone for the big day, and how you spend it can greatly affect how you feel on your wedding day. Here are our top tips:
Early Night: Avoid staying out too late. It might be tempting to have one last late-night hurrah, but remember that you need to be fresh and energized for your big day. Aim for a full night's sleep to ensure you wake up feeling rested.
Limit Alcohol: While it’s okay to have a drink to calm the nerves, avoid overindulging. You want to wake up feeling your best, not nursing a hangover. Stick to water or herbal tea for most of the evening.
Relaxation Routine: Create a relaxing routine for the night before. This could include a warm bath, reading a book, or meditating. Anything that helps you unwind and ensures a restful night.
Wedding Day Morning Routine
The morning of your wedding sets the stage for the entire day. Starting off right will help keep you energized and in good spirits. Here’s what we recommend:
Hearty Breakfast: Start your day with a nutritious and filling breakfast. Think proteins, whole grains, and fruits. Avoid anything too greasy or heavy. This will keep you full and prevent any hunger pangs or 'hanger' later on.
Stay Hydrated: Drink plenty of water throughout the day. Dehydration can lead to headaches and fatigue, which you definitely want to avoid. Keep a water bottle handy and sip regularly.
Stay Calm: Surround yourself with calming influences. Whether it’s your bridesmaids, family, or a calming playlist, make sure the atmosphere is relaxed and positive. Stress is contagious, but so is calmness.
Hire a Professional Wedding Planner
Our biggest piece of advice for a truly stress-free and enjoyable wedding day is to hire a professional wedding planner. Here’s why:
Expertise and Experience: A wedding planner brings expertise and experience to the table. They know how to handle any situation that arises and can ensure everything runs smoothly.
Stress Reduction: With a planner handling the logistics, you can focus on enjoying your day. From coordinating with vendors to managing the timeline, they’ve got it covered.
Guest Experience: A planner ensures that not only you but also your guests have an amazing time. They handle the little details that make a big difference, allowing everyone to relax and enjoy the celebration.
Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Seattle Wedding Planner with over 19 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.