Who Gets a “Plus One?"

When creating your guest list, plus ones are always a challenge. Let’s be real, at the end of the day you don’t want to end up with a bunch of Tinder dates at your wedding! So here are my tips for trimming down your guest list without leaving all your guests at the singles’ table.

1.       If they’re under 21 they don’t get a plus one

This is a general rule of thumb, but of course there are exceptions! But you can pretty much guarantee that if they are too young to drink alcohol they are too young for a plus one!

2.       Make sure the entire bridal party gets a plus one

Your bridal party is doing a lot for you and for your wedding so make sure you thank them with a plus one. This will keep them all happy and keep any single people from feeling awkward while surrounded by all of your married friends.

3.       If they rely on Tinder, they don’t get a plus one

Anyone who isn’t in a committed, or at least somewhat committed relationship doesn’t get a plus one. You are paying for every guest so wouldn’t you like each guest to be important to you? Your wedding should not be the venue for a first date!

At the end of the day, weddings are expensive and personal events. You don’t want to spend that day with strangers nor do you want to pay for a stranger’s meal! So be sure to keep plus ones in mind and who you are giving them too when planning your guest list.

Be a Great Guest

Wedding etiquette rules don’t just apply to the bride and groom. There is a laundry list of dos and don’ts that you as a guest should follow. Here are 5 of the most important rules that guests should live by.

1.       RSVP – Take the time to RSVP. This is the first and quite possibly most important rule. Do not show up unannounced and do not bring a guest if you did not RSVP for one.

2.       Be On Time – Weddings are notorious for starting late but that doesn’t mean you should follow suit! Don’t be late, and as a bonus, the earlier you arrive, the better seat you will get for the ceremony.

3.       Don’t Drink Too Much – The reception is a giant party that a lot of times includes free booze; and let’s be honest, who doesn’t love free booze? But don’t push your limits! Getting wasted in front of the bride and groom’s family and friends is not a good look!

4.       Don’t Complain or be Disrespectful –We all like to complain every once in a while, it’s human nature. Just as it is human nature to have different tastes and cultural backgrounds. So save that talk for after the wedding. Do not be disrespectful, rude or offensive to the bride and groom who have invited you to share in their special day.

5.       Have Fun – Weddings are fun! Enjoy yourself and celebrate this special occasion! The bride and groom want you at their wedding and they want you to enjoy yourself!

Who Gets a “Plus One”?

When creating your guest list, plus ones are always a challenge. Let’s be real, at the end of the day you don’t want to end up with a bunch of Tinder dates at your wedding! So here are my tips for trimming down your guest list without leaving all your guests at the singles’ table.

1.       If they’re under 21 they don’t get a plus one

This is a general rule of thumb, but of course there are exceptions! But you can pretty much guarantee that if they are too young to drink alcohol they are too young for a plus one!

2.       Make sure the entire bridal party gets a plus one

Your bridal party is doing a lot for you and for your wedding so make sure you thank them with a plus one. This will keep them all happy and keep any single people from feeling awkward while surrounded by all of your married friends.

3.       If they rely on Tinder, they don’t get a plus one

Anyone who isn’t in a committed, or at least somewhat committed relationship doesn’t get a plus one. You are paying for every guest so wouldn’t you like each guest to be important to you? Your wedding should not be the venue for a first date!

At the end of the day, weddings are expensive and personal events. You don’t want to spend that day with strangers nor do you want to pay for a stranger’s meal! So be sure to keep plus ones in mind and who you are giving them too when planning your guest list!