We know that every couple is unique. From your inside jokes to late night snack preferences, to the way you show that you love each other. So, it makes sense that your wedding style should say a lot about you and your love. Whether you walk down the aisle barefoot on a beach or say your vows under a chandelier in a grand ballroom, your wedding day is a reflection of your relationship, your personalities, and your shared vision for the future.
So, what does your wedding style say about, not just you as individuals but as a couple? Let’s talk about some popular wedding styles and decode the message behind the mood – with some fun examples to match.
#01: The Romantic Garden Wedding
This is for you, if you and your partner…
Love watching period dramas (C’mon Bridgerton fans!) and may swoon over sentiments like handwritten cards and letters
Love to spend your Saturdays grabbing an early morning coffee and hitting up your favorite antique shop
Owns at least one antique piece because it “just has character”
You two are all about timeless love and deep connection. You probably still remember what you were wearing on your first date and you bring out each other’s softer side. You value emotion, beauty, and meaningful gestures, and your relationship has an old-soul kind of charm.
Imagine this…
Exchanging vows under a blooming archway in a lavender field, or field a garden tucked in the classic neighborhoods on Queen Anne. Guests are listening to violinists playing Bridgerton style covers and you end the night with dancing under the stars. Talk about swoon-worthy right?
#02: The Modern Minimalist Wedding
This is for you, if you and your partner…
Has a curated capsule wardrobe and a shared love of sleek design
Prefer neutrals over neons and efficiency/sustainability over extravagance
Agree that less is more, except when it comes to your love for each other.
You value sustainability, clarity, intention, and authenticity. You’d rather have a deep meaningful moment with an intimate group of loved ones, than throw a lavish party for 500 guests. You are grounded, self-assured, and not afraid to break traditions to stay true to yourselves.
Imagine this…
A downtown loft or gallery in the Soho district. There are clean lines, soft lighting, and features a short and sweet ceremony. Cocktail hour is held at sunset on the rooftop and there are no frills, no fuss, just real, raw, and incredible, powerful, love.
#03: Step into Nature Wedding
This is for you, if you and your partner…
Can’t resist a good musical festival or a good thrifting haul
Probably owns a rescue dog, a polaroid camera, and a travel van
Loves adventure and traveling around the world or country
Your love is adventurous, creative, and a little unconventional. You’re the kind of couple who doesn’t just go through the motions in life. You dance through it. You find magic in the mundane and turn ordinary moments into something memorable.
Imagine this…
Picture a rainforest backdrop, or a hike into the cascades for an elopement ceremony. Fresh florals, greens, and nature is the backdrop for your wedding day. No extra frills and a farm to table, family style meals.
#04: The Classic Ballroom Wedding
This is for you, if you and your partner…
Believes in dressing to impress and loves a black-tie event
Has old Pinterest boards of Royal Weddings
You want to opt for ballroom classes and have opportunities to practice your first dance
Is timeless and enjoys a touch of elegance
You and your partner are elegant, ambitious, and deeply respectful of tradition, but with your own twist. You two thrive on structure, celebrate milestones in style, and love the finer things in life. You’re a team that doesn’t just plan dreams, and you execute them flawlessly.
Imagine this…
Thornwood castle, elegant black tie dress code and you’re wearing a custom ballgown. With the historic castle in the background, you walk down the aisle in front of the fountain. You and your guests enjoy a five-course plated dinner and champagne tower. And you end the night with a choreographed waltz.
#05: The Rustic Farm Wedding
This is for you, if you and your partner…
Love the outdoors, DIY projects and trips to the farmers market for the fresh picked flowers and fruit
Would rather enjoy a campfire and s’mores than souffle
Feels most at home in the wide open space
Your relationship is built on warmth, comfort, and shared values. You are practical but deeply sentimental, and you know how to make each other laugh even on the tough days. You love creating memories with your hands and hearts and your friends and family are your everything.
Imagine this…
A local farm, with wide open spaces. It may or may not have a repurposed barn with beautiful wild flower centerpieces, twinkle likes and a live folk band. Your guest book, may be a repurposed or hand made bench that your guests can sign – which will be moved to your front porch of course.
#06: The Destination Wedding
This is for you, if you and your partner…
Met while traveling or bonded over a shared bucket list
Have more stamps in your passport than magnets on your fridge
Believe that life is meant to be an adventure and so is love
You are free spirited, spontaneous, and full of wanderlust. Your relationship is rooted in exploration and curiosity. You’re the kind of couple who’s just as happy getting lost in a new city as you are in finding yourself in each other.
Imagine this…
You invite your 20 closest family and friends to an all inclusive resort in Mexico. You say “I do” on the cliffside overlooking the ocean. The wedding was more than just a single day event, you are able to spend the weekend with your closest family and friends.
In the end, no matter how you celebrate, your wedding is a snapshot of who you are as a couple in this magical moment of life. Whether you are dancing in a castle, or saying “I do” on a mountain top, your style tells the story of your love, your way. So go ahead and embrace the lace or rock the leather jackets. Make it vintage, make it modern, but most importantly make it you. Because in the end, that is the best kind of wedding there is.
Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 20 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.